"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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Journal(lies oro friendzoned?)

Bwilled

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ok so i like this girl alot and i knew her since we were born. She's very picky about the guys she likes and she will never date anyone that doesnt go to church (i go to her church lucky me). For the last 2-3 months ive just started to like her and thats when she through some signs at me. (asked me to sit next to her, wrap her arm around mine and lay her head on my shoulder, one time we just leaned our heads on each others shoulder and just hummed some songs.) My friends think that she likes me but ever since one of my friends said that i liked some1 else from my school she has been avoiding me. now she hardly even talks to me. I was told that she thinks i like her (which i do) and now she still not talking to me as she was before. when she does talk to me its mainly just smiles and stuff not really full blown conversations. yesterday my friend asked her if she would ever go out with me and she said no because she sees me as a cousin or brother :confused: :confused: but she said she would think about it. and im wondering if she was lying to the friend or if i was friendzoned :nervous: :nervous:
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Bwilled

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i cant just kiss her like that.... im a freking punk and shes one of my good friends and i dont wana ruin that...
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Bwilled

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so the only way to go is kiss her... do i just walk up to her and kiss her?
 

Mindgamez

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You guys are good. Good mindset to have.
Bwilled, risk something or you won't find out. If she's really like one of your best friends and you don't want to risk ruining things, go for other girls.
 

Bwilled

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ok thanks ill make that risk in due time not to long though and i will tell you how it goes
 
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