Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.
Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers. Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.
I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.
I keep coming out as an ENTJ yet I have no ambition to be a leader of anyone nor being around people more than the necessary time.
I think Im borderline introvert altought closer to the extrovert range.
2-3 hours a day of socialization are more than enough for me while I need total silence and quiet to work and rest.
WrongUse the letters as a cover, cognitive functions as the pages/information. I can probably type you just off your post history.
Update: I see a LOT Extroverted Thinking in your post history that stands out, you are a photographer, and some minor posts stood out. My final answer is ESTJ. Why did you type as INTJ? 1). The vast majority of people have the wrong definitions of what an introvert and extrovert is, so they screw up on the first letter and it goes downhill from there. 2). INTJs have extroverted thinking as their auxiliary function, so if you were completely unaware of what Extroverted Thinking was, you could've mistaken this as your dominant function while testing. Last, I do not know who you are outside this forum, so I am purely testing you off of your post history.
Then change your post historyWrong
why the hell would i do that brain deadThen change your post history![]()
ambivert pretty much means you are an intelligent extrovert.I am ASTJ, A meaning Ambivert. I oscillate between Intro and Extro, right on the border. Some tests I get introverted (logistician), other tests I get extroverted (executive).
What happens, IN HER MIND, is that she comes to see you as WORTHLESS simply because she hasn't had to INVEST anything in you in order to get you or to keep you.
You were an interesting diversion while she had nothing else to do. But now that someone a little more valuable has come along, someone who expects her to treat him very well, she'll have no problem at all dropping you or demoting you to lowly "friendship" status.
Quote taken from The SoSuave Guide to Women and Dating, which you can read for FREE.