"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Jose is Back!

DonJoseCantosie

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hey guys, Heyjose25points is back. I'm no longer him now, i'm now DonJoseCantosie(sounds like Can-tose-eeA). Spanish and Italian name :p
But the reason why i left was that i feared that some advice on this board would be poisoned in my mind and that i would be too confused to figure out what i should do in the game. But in reality, i can believe whatever I want, and take in what i think is plausible but at the same time not have my head up my own ass. :whistle:

I also said that I'd return when i'm hella good in the game, but i've decided that from now on that I can truly believe what I want to from this board....plus keep my heart open to advice.

My bootcamp may have ended, but i'm gonna keep updating with my progress in the game. Thats the least i can do for the guys who were following my progress.

Jose is back b1tches!
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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DonJoseCantosie

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thanks guys, u'll be seeing me with updates and what not
 
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