"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Jose is Back!

DonJoseCantosie

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hey guys, Heyjose25points is back. I'm no longer him now, i'm now DonJoseCantosie(sounds like Can-tose-eeA). Spanish and Italian name :p
But the reason why i left was that i feared that some advice on this board would be poisoned in my mind and that i would be too confused to figure out what i should do in the game. But in reality, i can believe whatever I want, and take in what i think is plausible but at the same time not have my head up my own ass. :whistle:

I also said that I'd return when i'm hella good in the game, but i've decided that from now on that I can truly believe what I want to from this board....plus keep my heart open to advice.

My bootcamp may have ended, but i'm gonna keep updating with my progress in the game. Thats the least i can do for the guys who were following my progress.

Jose is back b1tches!
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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DonJoseCantosie

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thanks guys, u'll be seeing me with updates and what not
 
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