"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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Jordan Peterson's perspective on sex and women?

Glassguy

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So do you agree then sleeping with a new girl every week can have detrimental effects on future serous relationships and family?
Simply put, the more attractive women you sleep with that have high value, the more you realize they are easier to get than you think if you're not sleeping with attractive high value women.

If you have the looks, personality and status, it is very easy. The easier it is, the quicker you realize you dont have to put up with red flags and bullshyte from one of them because when that door closes, 2 more open in terms of more attractive/high value women.

The important thing is to not totally become disconnected that these women also have feelings and emotions, so its best to be straight up with them from the start and avoid having chicks blow up on you or burn bridges along the way.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Simply put, the more attractive women you sleep with that have high value, the more you realize they are easier to get than you think if you're not sleeping with attractive high value women.
True, and it's also dangerous IF you want to be in a LTR. The more attractive women you sleep with, the easier it is to "next" when problems come up.

So while you are building skills to sleep with plenty of attractive women, you are simultaneously NOT building conflict resolution skills.

Which is fine, if you never want an LTR. But if you suddenly decide by middle age to switch from player to LTR, it may be more difficult than you imagine for reasons you might not expect.
 

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True, and it's also dangerous IF you want to be in a LTR. The more attractive women you sleep with, the easier it is to "next" when problems come up.

So while you are building skills to sleep with plenty of attractive women, you are simultaneously NOT building conflict resolution skills.

Which is fine, if you never want an LTR. But if you suddenly decide by middle age to switch from player to LTR, it may be more difficult than you imagine for reasons you might not expect.
I agree with that. It's a balancing act
 

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I agree with that. It's a balancing act

One of the problems is all this stuff was taken care of in the past with external incentives (social proof, religion, etc.). To fully handle all the complexities of modern dating, one must have a significant amount of resolve, which most people (especially young attractive women) DON'T have.
 

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Wait did you guys mean quality as in value/SMV or quality as in moral character (not being with too many people)?
If you're referring to self improvement, both. Fact is, the higher your SMV, the easier you'll have it. But you should also always act with integrity, not for any game related reason but because it's the right way to live your life.

Lay count isn't a reflection of integrity. A high lay count in women is more an indicator of other issues.

If you're talking about what to look for in women, in an LTR character is way more important than looks for obvious reasons. Whereas if you're just laying pipe then neither really matters outside of your personal choices.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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There is a lot of pseudo science up in this ***** but, very little content that is point on.

Jordan Peterson is GOAT. He is bang on with his thoughts on sex, on marriage, life, and has the science to back it. The thing is, he is very much so blue pilled, and women are out skiing down cawk mountain. Are walking *** dumpsters in the west and marriage is plan B for when the playboys stop calling. Navigating through this game is no joke.

Peterson has a video in maps of meaning about winning the meta game versus the series of games.
 
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