"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Jordan Peterson's perspective on sex and women?

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So do you agree then sleeping with a new girl every week can have detrimental effects on future serous relationships and family?
Simply put, the more attractive women you sleep with that have high value, the more you realize they are easier to get than you think if you're not sleeping with attractive high value women.

If you have the looks, personality and status, it is very easy. The easier it is, the quicker you realize you dont have to put up with red flags and bullshyte from one of them because when that door closes, 2 more open in terms of more attractive/high value women.

The important thing is to not totally become disconnected that these women also have feelings and emotions, so its best to be straight up with them from the start and avoid having chicks blow up on you or burn bridges along the way.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Simply put, the more attractive women you sleep with that have high value, the more you realize they are easier to get than you think if you're not sleeping with attractive high value women.
True, and it's also dangerous IF you want to be in a LTR. The more attractive women you sleep with, the easier it is to "next" when problems come up.

So while you are building skills to sleep with plenty of attractive women, you are simultaneously NOT building conflict resolution skills.

Which is fine, if you never want an LTR. But if you suddenly decide by middle age to switch from player to LTR, it may be more difficult than you imagine for reasons you might not expect.
 

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True, and it's also dangerous IF you want to be in a LTR. The more attractive women you sleep with, the easier it is to "next" when problems come up.

So while you are building skills to sleep with plenty of attractive women, you are simultaneously NOT building conflict resolution skills.

Which is fine, if you never want an LTR. But if you suddenly decide by middle age to switch from player to LTR, it may be more difficult than you imagine for reasons you might not expect.
I agree with that. It's a balancing act
 

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I agree with that. It's a balancing act

One of the problems is all this stuff was taken care of in the past with external incentives (social proof, religion, etc.). To fully handle all the complexities of modern dating, one must have a significant amount of resolve, which most people (especially young attractive women) DON'T have.
 

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Wait did you guys mean quality as in value/SMV or quality as in moral character (not being with too many people)?
If you're referring to self improvement, both. Fact is, the higher your SMV, the easier you'll have it. But you should also always act with integrity, not for any game related reason but because it's the right way to live your life.

Lay count isn't a reflection of integrity. A high lay count in women is more an indicator of other issues.

If you're talking about what to look for in women, in an LTR character is way more important than looks for obvious reasons. Whereas if you're just laying pipe then neither really matters outside of your personal choices.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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There is a lot of pseudo science up in this ***** but, very little content that is point on.

Jordan Peterson is GOAT. He is bang on with his thoughts on sex, on marriage, life, and has the science to back it. The thing is, he is very much so blue pilled, and women are out skiing down cawk mountain. Are walking *** dumpsters in the west and marriage is plan B for when the playboys stop calling. Navigating through this game is no joke.

Peterson has a video in maps of meaning about winning the meta game versus the series of games.
 
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