"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Jordan Peterson - "Dont put women on pedestal"

Lion1985

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Found yesterday an mindopening video from Jordan Peterson which can be shortly summerized in "Dont put women on pedestal"

I think he describes psycholgically very good why we put some women on pedestal, why we adore some of them, why we have this "perfect picture" in our head of the women we idelize

redpill & co teach us "dont put them on pedestal",....but why? whats in our head, were it comes from?...

just check it out, it opened my eyes :)

I recommend generally all videos from James Peterson, he´s such an intelectual/redpilled guy, just awesome...

 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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soulforge

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Its good man... getting over the fear of rejection...

I need to learn this man... it's very rare for me to cold approach woman...

The city where I work, is full of beautiful woman.. And I never approach..

So much puzzy I am missing out on man.. I need to change this.
 

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We need to know the WHY, its very important so it can be put in proper use. Not many men on here explain the WHY part
 

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Rejection is the opportunity to progress in awesomeness.

Rethink, Regroup, Reframe
 
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