"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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Jordan Peterson - "Dont put women on pedestal"

Lion1985

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Found yesterday an mindopening video from Jordan Peterson which can be shortly summerized in "Dont put women on pedestal"

I think he describes psycholgically very good why we put some women on pedestal, why we adore some of them, why we have this "perfect picture" in our head of the women we idelize

redpill & co teach us "dont put them on pedestal",....but why? whats in our head, were it comes from?...

just check it out, it opened my eyes :)

I recommend generally all videos from James Peterson, he´s such an intelectual/redpilled guy, just awesome...

 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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soulforge

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Its good man... getting over the fear of rejection...

I need to learn this man... it's very rare for me to cold approach woman...

The city where I work, is full of beautiful woman.. And I never approach..

So much puzzy I am missing out on man.. I need to change this.
 

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We need to know the WHY, its very important so it can be put in proper use. Not many men on here explain the WHY part
 

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Rejection is the opportunity to progress in awesomeness.

Rethink, Regroup, Reframe
 
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