"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Jordan Peterson - "Dont put women on pedestal"

Lion1985

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Found yesterday an mindopening video from Jordan Peterson which can be shortly summerized in "Dont put women on pedestal"

I think he describes psycholgically very good why we put some women on pedestal, why we adore some of them, why we have this "perfect picture" in our head of the women we idelize

redpill & co teach us "dont put them on pedestal",....but why? whats in our head, were it comes from?...

just check it out, it opened my eyes :)

I recommend generally all videos from James Peterson, he´s such an intelectual/redpilled guy, just awesome...

 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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soulforge

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Its good man... getting over the fear of rejection...

I need to learn this man... it's very rare for me to cold approach woman...

The city where I work, is full of beautiful woman.. And I never approach..

So much puzzy I am missing out on man.. I need to change this.
 

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We need to know the WHY, its very important so it can be put in proper use. Not many men on here explain the WHY part
 

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Rejection is the opportunity to progress in awesomeness.

Rethink, Regroup, Reframe
 
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