Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single

She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.

You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.

The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.

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Joining a group

MacdaddyJr

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I got a little crush on a girl and she is in certain group of popular kind of kids. I just moved here and I haven't really established a group. I like this girl, she is very shy, I'm a senior she's a sophmore. Should I try to finess her friends first and join the group before making any move?. Would she date me if I am new and not part of their group?
 
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"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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jonny football hero

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I think she would, with you obviously showing her you are a good catch. Introduce yourself to the group, but your in danger of falling into the "friendship zone"
 

Bombshell

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IMO joining a group is super stupid. A true DJ or PUA is social and can get any woman in any group. In HS you need to be a leader not a groupie. Hang out with/talk to everyone. If you hang out with just with her croud just to hook up with her she will be able to spot your BS, and later chicks from other groups will think twice before hanging with you. You should be friends with her friends of course, but no more so then you are with everyone else. Also remember not to focus on just her, work the other ladies to, and use them as social proof.

Remember not to make the mistake of thinking a chick likes you when your the new guy either, some are just wierd and they like to flirt with the new guy to be nice but don't necessarily like him. Just ignore that and use them as social proof for other chicks.

Have a good time at your new school bud!
 

Smooth as Anything

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Originally posted by Bombshell
super stupid
Minus 5 heterosexuality points.
 

Kourt

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ooooh ur a senior and shes a sophmore, robbing the cradle! j/k haha

This will actually work for you. Since she's a lowerclassmen her friends are more likly to like you and accept you.

Introduce urself to her friends, walk with her through hallways, show ur interested, and ask her out. Go for it dude!!
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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Garbury

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definately single her out though. Be friendly to her group, but don't let your mind wander, you know what you want, just go get it. Don't waste your time joining the group unless you actually want to hang out with those kids.
 
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