"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Joining a group

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I got a little crush on a girl and she is in certain group of popular kind of kids. I just moved here and I haven't really established a group. I like this girl, she is very shy, I'm a senior she's a sophmore. Should I try to finess her friends first and join the group before making any move?. Would she date me if I am new and not part of their group?
 
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"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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I think she would, with you obviously showing her you are a good catch. Introduce yourself to the group, but your in danger of falling into the "friendship zone"
 
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IMO joining a group is super stupid. A true DJ or PUA is social and can get any woman in any group. In HS you need to be a leader not a groupie. Hang out with/talk to everyone. If you hang out with just with her croud just to hook up with her she will be able to spot your BS, and later chicks from other groups will think twice before hanging with you. You should be friends with her friends of course, but no more so then you are with everyone else. Also remember not to focus on just her, work the other ladies to, and use them as social proof.

Remember not to make the mistake of thinking a chick likes you when your the new guy either, some are just wierd and they like to flirt with the new guy to be nice but don't necessarily like him. Just ignore that and use them as social proof for other chicks.

Have a good time at your new school bud!
 
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Originally posted by Bombshell
super stupid
Click to expand...
Minus 5 heterosexuality points.
 
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ooooh ur a senior and shes a sophmore, robbing the cradle! j/k haha

This will actually work for you. Since she's a lowerclassmen her friends are more likly to like you and accept you.

Introduce urself to her friends, walk with her through hallways, show ur interested, and ask her out. Go for it dude!!
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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definately single her out though. Be friendly to her group, but don't let your mind wander, you know what you want, just go get it. Don't waste your time joining the group unless you actually want to hang out with those kids.
 
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