"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Ok, I always thought that PA's were like CNA's, which is a step below LPN.

But I went to this website:

http://www.aapa.org/

and found that being PA is more like nurse practitioner, practicing medicine under a supervising doctor.

It looks like the PA program is in addition to 4 year of undergraduate work. It requires another 26 months of school on the graduate level, then you will have a master's and will need to sit for a certifying exam and have periodic annual education seminars. Essentially, MD lite.

Do you like the medical field? A friend of mine has his BA in marketing and is now studying for an MBA with a focus on healthcare management. Good money 9-5 jobs in that area.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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If you don't know what you want to do you can always go into business because you'll be able to get jobs with all kinds of different fields and it's very broad. You should be thinking more about what jobs you can enjoy instead of what jobs will let you do your hobbies outside of work. There are plenty of places to get jobs in California so I wouldn't worry about being able to surf.
 

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screw the 'fun' part.

money rules this world. without money, you are nobody. you aint ****. money=somebody. go for a job that will reward you economically. all those ****ers that say 'do what you love' are either hippy ****s, have trustfunds or are generally dumb as ****.


money walks, bull**** talks.
 

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Originally posted by Centaurion
screw the 'fun' part.

money rules this world. without money, you are nobody. you aint ****. money=somebody. go for a job that will reward you economically. all those ****ers that say 'do what you love' are either hippy ****s, have trustfunds or are generally dumb as ****.


money walks, bull**** talks.
This depresses me :(

Is that really your attitude or are you just joking?
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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Originally posted by Nocturnal
If you don't know what you want to do you can always go into business because you'll be able to get jobs with all kinds of different fields and it's very broad. You should be thinking more about what jobs you can enjoy instead of what jobs will let you do your hobbies outside of work. There are plenty of places to get jobs in California so I wouldn't worry about being able to surf.
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i stated the only reason i want a job is so that i can surf and travel.
why would i want to get a job thats not so boring if i couldnt surf?? makes no sense

as far as i know bachelors is just during college, not post college. and it said most PA's have atleast a Bacehlors.
 

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Originally posted by Vincent
This depresses me :(

Is that really your attitude or are you just joking?
no, im serious.
 

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Originally posted by Lost
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i stated the only reason i want a job is so that i can surf and travel.
why would i want to get a job thats not so boring if i couldnt surf?? makes no sense
You can surf along almost the entire west coast. There are plenty of opportunities throughout it to do virtually whatever you want.
 

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what major am i supposed to get if i want to be a physicians assitent?

i know i have to get a bachelors or masters, but i dont really know what major im supposed to get and what classes to take
 

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Originally posted by Centaurion
no, im serious.
I hope one day in life you find something you love, then you realize that there is more to life than money
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Originally posted by Vincent
I hope one day in life you find something you love, then you realize that there is more to life than money
what is 'love' going to do for me when I'm dirt poor and have to worry every single second about the next meal?
 

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Originally posted by Centaurion
what is 'love' going to do for me when I'm dirt poor and have to worry every single second about the next meal?
So your love is to be a hobo?

C'mon your thinking to broad. If you do something you love, you'll make money. Like if you want to be a mechanic, archaelogist, etc, etc.

We're not here to make money, we're here to have a life.
 

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like surfing......... which is why i need money.
Did you read my suggestion from eariler about opening up a surf shop?

Love surfing + need money = open surf shop.
 

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Originally posted by Lost
what major am i supposed to get if i want to be a physicians assitent?

i know i have to get a bachelors or masters, but i dont really know what major im supposed to get and what classes to take
Look, go to the websiite of the PA association, look around the site for suggestions or the email address of the appropriate person to ask your question.:eek:
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Shiftkey: theres a billion surf shops. if it does work out, i still wont be making enough money to travel. altho it is anice idea.. but just not enuff money from it.

Snatch: WHat?? i dont understand what ur sayin? There are a ton of places that hire PA's...
 

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I am in my last year of a double degree in entrepreneurship and innovation/accounting and I'm salivating over the opportunities when I get back from travelling.

YOu people don't understand how many opportunities there are if you are intelligent and have a sound business background. Many business owners aren't really taking their business to the next level because they are poor managers and this is in all industries.

As a class project, we had to start a business with 50.00. We ended up doing a car detailing service and in 3 weeks with 5 of us working 4 hours a day/4 days a week we made 20,000 and we weren't really trying our hardest to get customers(that and working half days). Other groups trumped us and made well over 40,000 doing things like painting and setting up a small import business but because they all had good business sense, they were able to kill the competition.

Another thing to ponder is what is going to happen when the baby boomers start retiring in a few years? Think about it. THe largest single cohort of people ever in the western world are retiring and whose going to take up those jobs? What's more think about all the successful small and medium businesses that have great potential, a good customer base and a huge market to grow in, yet the owner hasn't taken it to the next level. Now all those businesses are going to be sold to people and the smart ones are going to snatch up the many gems left and right and make a killing. You think 110k a year is good, that's nothing.

Also you don't just get out of school and get a job as a manager at MGM grand(BTW, the manager there and any other huge or 5 star resort gets hundreds of thousands a year). It takes years of ****ty work and pay and you slowly climb up to the top. I was talking to the GM of the Banff Springs Hotel in an interview and he said if he put that much work to get where he was into his own business, he would have been a millionaire many times over.
 

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Originally posted by Lost
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Snatch: WHat?? i dont understand what ur sayin? There are a ton of places that hire PA's...
What don't you understand? You were asking what you should major in or what classes you should take so you can become a PA.

What I told you is that there is an association for PA's, and they have a website. Why don't you go there and find someone who knows what you need to study if you want to be a PA?

Go to the source.;)
 

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so where can i find the info (pay that I will probly get, type of hours, and the amount of schooling to get the pay i want:
for 1. physicians assistent 2. nurse 3. Pharmacist

my dad said PHARMACIST is only 2 year post college???? (and hes a doctor)
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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