"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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Pakwah

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ive been offered to help with new hires at my fast food job...yeah whatever. i was thinking of making a questionaire for them to fill out. was wondering if i could get a little help. what is fair to ask someone who is only 16?? i was thinking q's like 'what do you think is your best/worst quality?' or 'name a time when you were able to calm a heated situation...what did you do? what was the outcome?

knowing you guys, i'll get some really crazy ones...but i would appreciate some serious ones. thanks
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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penkitten

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tell me why i should hire you?

if anyone says : because i will make this place money and kiss my bosses ass .............. hire them asap :cheer:
 

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Originally posted by Pakwah
ive been offered to help with new hires at my fast food job...yeah whatever. i was thinking of making a questionaire for them to fill out. was wondering if i could get a little help. what is fair to ask someone who is only 16?? i was thinking q's like 'what do you think is your best/worst quality?' or 'name a time when you were able to calm a heated situation...what did you do? what was the outcome?

knowing you guys, i'll get some really crazy ones...but i would appreciate some serious ones. thanks
i think just ask "get to know you" type questions..
theres no real point in asking about best/worst quality, how do u handle a heated situation.. they are all going to give u the same answers..

you're best to just look for hygenic kids who turn up. then u'll find out if they work hard enough pretty quickly..
 

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The most imporant question. Have you ever been convicted of a felony? If so please explain.
 

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It's fast food. Asking them to fill out a screening questionnaire is laughable... it's not like you're going to pay them more than minimum wage, or that their job is actually a long-term career option for them... :rolleyes:
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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