"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Jewelry: Silver vs. Gold?

Soprano

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What do women like more on men? Gold or Silver jewelry?

I'm thinkin of getting a new watch (right now I have a two-tone Seiko), a medium sized herringbone necklace with a small cross charm, a pinky ring with a small diamond in the top corner, and maybe a bracelet for the other wrist (I been $aving :D ) -- but of course before I spend that kind of dough on a bunch of **** I wanna find out which seems to be the best one to go with... cuz **** I like both gold and silver lol, I can't decide
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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white cloud 8

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Well...thats something only you can decide because its your money, and, besides who cares if girls like it or not, are you wearing it to flaunt it or because you just enjoy wearing it? :rolleyes:
 

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Silver is classy, but gold is well.. luxurious.

I can't really answer 100% your question, but it all matters on : skin tone (if you're dark skin, gold looks better, if you're light skin, silver looks better), how much cash you got (if you are planning to spend less than a hundred, go silver, if you're gonna spend at least 150 and up, go gold) , you got other things to think about too.. such as style, any additional things, etc.
 

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blonde hair, tanned skin, gold chain=:cool:
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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[DoN.2.Da.JUaN]

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diamond bling bling :D
 

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the answer... WHAT YOU LIKE.

A DJ isn't supposed to care if a girl doesn't like your gold or silver watch/medallion/ring etc. It's what makes you feel edified, cool, and yourself.

Personally, I love silver. All my tools (camera, watch, cellphone, etc.) are silver, and my clothes are as close to silver as you can get, black and white. Crisp. That's just MY style, and if a girl doesn't dig it, oh well.

It's like the -Short Hair -vs. -Long Hair- debate. Some women desise long hair, some will only go out with those who have long hair. Pick your colors/styles that make you feel like you, and go out there and pimp it. Good luck buddy.:D
 

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Its what you like + style

The thing about gold is that less is more. You can't wear too much gold or it looks gaudy. Silver is classy, and you can wear more of it without looking like Mr. T. Either is fine. If you wear gold, make it noticable, but discreet. With silver, you can safely flaunt a little more without looking tasteless.

The most important thing I've learnt with Jewellry is that women are attracted to craftsmanship and detail, not just sheer shine and glitter.

I have a cheap $10.oo silver ring I bought in Greenwich Village that has gotten me more compliments than some of the flashier stuff I've worn, because the ring depicts two dragons coiled around a stone.

Women like craftsmanship more than just size and shine.
 

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It pretty much depends on what color skin you have. If you have a light skin complection then go with silver, and if its dark go with gold.
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Actually I find gold too cliche; for a man (ie. watch) silver is far more subtle and elegant.

Personally I prefer glass. Its cheaper.
 

OzyBoy

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i dont even wear a watch, i just look at my phone if i want to know the time. i kind of like silver more than gold i dont know why but i do.
 

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silver looks better on tanned skin, and gold on white/paler(spelling) skin. Id go with silver since I have tan skin and gold is so from the 90's.
 
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