Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single

She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.

You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.

The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.

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Jewelry: Silver vs. Gold?

Soprano

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What do women like more on men? Gold or Silver jewelry?

I'm thinkin of getting a new watch (right now I have a two-tone Seiko), a medium sized herringbone necklace with a small cross charm, a pinky ring with a small diamond in the top corner, and maybe a bracelet for the other wrist (I been $aving :D ) -- but of course before I spend that kind of dough on a bunch of **** I wanna find out which seems to be the best one to go with... cuz **** I like both gold and silver lol, I can't decide
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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white cloud 8

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Well...thats something only you can decide because its your money, and, besides who cares if girls like it or not, are you wearing it to flaunt it or because you just enjoy wearing it? :rolleyes:
 

DonJuanMonk

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Silver is classy, but gold is well.. luxurious.

I can't really answer 100% your question, but it all matters on : skin tone (if you're dark skin, gold looks better, if you're light skin, silver looks better), how much cash you got (if you are planning to spend less than a hundred, go silver, if you're gonna spend at least 150 and up, go gold) , you got other things to think about too.. such as style, any additional things, etc.
 

Double

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blonde hair, tanned skin, gold chain=:cool:
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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[DoN.2.Da.JUaN]

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diamond bling bling :D
 

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the answer... WHAT YOU LIKE.

A DJ isn't supposed to care if a girl doesn't like your gold or silver watch/medallion/ring etc. It's what makes you feel edified, cool, and yourself.

Personally, I love silver. All my tools (camera, watch, cellphone, etc.) are silver, and my clothes are as close to silver as you can get, black and white. Crisp. That's just MY style, and if a girl doesn't dig it, oh well.

It's like the -Short Hair -vs. -Long Hair- debate. Some women desise long hair, some will only go out with those who have long hair. Pick your colors/styles that make you feel like you, and go out there and pimp it. Good luck buddy.:D
 

Marlimus

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Its what you like + style

The thing about gold is that less is more. You can't wear too much gold or it looks gaudy. Silver is classy, and you can wear more of it without looking like Mr. T. Either is fine. If you wear gold, make it noticable, but discreet. With silver, you can safely flaunt a little more without looking tasteless.

The most important thing I've learnt with Jewellry is that women are attracted to craftsmanship and detail, not just sheer shine and glitter.

I have a cheap $10.oo silver ring I bought in Greenwich Village that has gotten me more compliments than some of the flashier stuff I've worn, because the ring depicts two dragons coiled around a stone.

Women like craftsmanship more than just size and shine.
 

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It pretty much depends on what color skin you have. If you have a light skin complection then go with silver, and if its dark go with gold.
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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diplomatic_lies

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Actually I find gold too cliche; for a man (ie. watch) silver is far more subtle and elegant.

Personally I prefer glass. Its cheaper.
 

OzyBoy

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i dont even wear a watch, i just look at my phone if i want to know the time. i kind of like silver more than gold i dont know why but i do.
 

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silver looks better on tanned skin, and gold on white/paler(spelling) skin. Id go with silver since I have tan skin and gold is so from the 90's.
 
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