"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Jewelry: Silver vs. Gold?

Soprano

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What do women like more on men? Gold or Silver jewelry?

I'm thinkin of getting a new watch (right now I have a two-tone Seiko), a medium sized herringbone necklace with a small cross charm, a pinky ring with a small diamond in the top corner, and maybe a bracelet for the other wrist (I been $aving :D ) -- but of course before I spend that kind of dough on a bunch of **** I wanna find out which seems to be the best one to go with... cuz **** I like both gold and silver lol, I can't decide
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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white cloud 8

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Well...thats something only you can decide because its your money, and, besides who cares if girls like it or not, are you wearing it to flaunt it or because you just enjoy wearing it? :rolleyes:
 

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Silver is classy, but gold is well.. luxurious.

I can't really answer 100% your question, but it all matters on : skin tone (if you're dark skin, gold looks better, if you're light skin, silver looks better), how much cash you got (if you are planning to spend less than a hundred, go silver, if you're gonna spend at least 150 and up, go gold) , you got other things to think about too.. such as style, any additional things, etc.
 

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blonde hair, tanned skin, gold chain=:cool:
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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[DoN.2.Da.JUaN]

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diamond bling bling :D
 

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the answer... WHAT YOU LIKE.

A DJ isn't supposed to care if a girl doesn't like your gold or silver watch/medallion/ring etc. It's what makes you feel edified, cool, and yourself.

Personally, I love silver. All my tools (camera, watch, cellphone, etc.) are silver, and my clothes are as close to silver as you can get, black and white. Crisp. That's just MY style, and if a girl doesn't dig it, oh well.

It's like the -Short Hair -vs. -Long Hair- debate. Some women desise long hair, some will only go out with those who have long hair. Pick your colors/styles that make you feel like you, and go out there and pimp it. Good luck buddy.:D
 

Marlimus

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Its what you like + style

The thing about gold is that less is more. You can't wear too much gold or it looks gaudy. Silver is classy, and you can wear more of it without looking like Mr. T. Either is fine. If you wear gold, make it noticable, but discreet. With silver, you can safely flaunt a little more without looking tasteless.

The most important thing I've learnt with Jewellry is that women are attracted to craftsmanship and detail, not just sheer shine and glitter.

I have a cheap $10.oo silver ring I bought in Greenwich Village that has gotten me more compliments than some of the flashier stuff I've worn, because the ring depicts two dragons coiled around a stone.

Women like craftsmanship more than just size and shine.
 

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It pretty much depends on what color skin you have. If you have a light skin complection then go with silver, and if its dark go with gold.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Actually I find gold too cliche; for a man (ie. watch) silver is far more subtle and elegant.

Personally I prefer glass. Its cheaper.
 

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i dont even wear a watch, i just look at my phone if i want to know the time. i kind of like silver more than gold i dont know why but i do.
 

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silver looks better on tanned skin, and gold on white/paler(spelling) skin. Id go with silver since I have tan skin and gold is so from the 90's.
 
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