“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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Jesus... My ex BPD is getting married..

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So... Wow.

Just got the news my ex BPD gf of 4 years is getting married...

I won't lie I've been very broken up about her. She moved in with him 6 months ago right after we broke up. The first 3 were agony with my best friend also dying.

So they've been together 6 months... Still the honeymoon phase really especially in terms of an alcoholic junkie borderline...

I'm 38. She's 43 with rapidly fading looks. Used to be a knockout but now she's got the white wine belly, ever expanding ass, grayig hair, wrinkles.

I didn't want this... She's a train wreck. Pill popper, mean drunk, no job, debt, rage... After 4 years and 3 recycles I was done.

And now she's getting married... In the time we've been apart steroid boys been in a bar fight and arrested, she's raged at many of her oldest friends and they're leaving her, she's been hospitalized twice due to drugs/alcohol...

Sounds like a winner right???

In our last face to face she bragged about how much money he has... And before that we had a fight with her saying "I was raised traditionally. I think a man should pay for everything!" This after I insist she do SOMETHING with her day besides sleep.

I know in a few years had we gotten married she and I would get divorced and id lose everything... Especially my time... Which isn't good. I do want a kid.
The stupid thought of white picket fences clouded my thinking and I withstood loads of abuse...

I understand that BPD, alcoholism, and conflict oriented people destroy relationships all on their own... And that this will end. I shouldn't care but I do. I want it to fail. I want her to abuse the fvck out of him like she did me.

Jesus what a morning... Good thing I banged last night. Woof.

Thanks for listening...
 
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Someone's still upset that they aren't with their ex.

Who cares....get over it pal. Life goes on. If she is as you describe...you shouldnt give two flying fvcks about her.
 
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as soon as i told my bpd i was engaged to someone else...BOOM!...she was up the duff, married and living on the other side of the world.

that still didn't stop her from contacting me by email though. lol.
 
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She will ruin the relationship by herself. Just sit back and laugh while this guy gets cleaned out and you're still standing.
 
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skinnyguy said:
She will ruin the relationship by herself. Just sit back and laugh while this guy gets cleaned out and you're still standing.
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THAT is what I needed to hear... :box: :D
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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Sit back and enjoy the train wreck. Don't let these guys kid you into thinkin you shouldn't feel some kinda way about it - bpd slootbag or not - she had an impact on ya and you'll get over it your own way. Just be glad you got out when you did.
 
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Funny how all these men are obsessed over their "BPD ex" knowing all their details and every move but still have no clue on how to really game women.
 
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Why the fvck do you know about this, or care? Sucks for her fiance. Jesus man.
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This.

Dont give a fvk OP. Thats what you need to do. Move on and heal. Dont look for news on her, and tell others you dont wanna know when shes brought up.
 
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shouldn't be surprised... shouldn't care... easy said than done but u gotta show a indifference attitude.
 
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Who cares if your ex BPD is getting married? She will be divorced in 6 months. My ex BPD was already divorced, after me she got married, had a kid, dumped the guy, got divorced again, collects child support, and has made 3 different guys their stepfather. She now STILL hops on a differnt c/ck every week and she is 35, she is still searching for that elusive rich alpha that will take her away from all her problems. They are completely delusional. Some things never change, she will be waiting for that guy until she is 92.

I know all this all because she advertizes her pathetic life on facebook and it's entertaining to see how the old trash is doing. I truly don't give a damn because I have a real woman now not a wh0re.
 
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Malice said:
My ex BPD was already divorced, after me she got married, had a kid, dumped the guy, got divorced again, collects child support, and has made 3 different guys their stepfather. She now STILL hops on a differnt c/ck every week and she is 35, she is still searching for that elusive rich alpha that will take her away from all her problems. They are completely delusional. Some things never change, she will be waiting for that guy until she is 92.

I truly don't give a damn because I have a real woman now not a wh0re.
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If you truly don't give a damn, then why are you still keeping tabs on what she is doing? Sounds to me like you can't let go of her. Secretly you probably still want her back.

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Give me a break dude. The only reason I look is because it's entertainment. Like watching a show on TV. I get down on my knees every day thanking god I got rid of that woman. I met a hot young Latina shortly after this and I am in an LTR. I love watching the wreckage of this BPD. I truly don't give a damn and laugh. That's the level I am on right now.
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Call it whatever you want, but you still have an obsession with her following every detail and move she makes. Would you watch bad TV show? Why would you get entertainment out of watching an ex? Checking up on her is a sign that you are still not over her. Not giving damn means she is out of your life for good. You still are making her part of your life by keeping tabs.
 
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If you truly don't give a damn, then why are you still keeping tabs on what she is doing? Sounds to me like you can't let go of her. Secretly you probably still want her back.
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Give me a break dude. The only reason I look is because it's entertainment. Like watching a show on TV. I get down on my knees every day thanking god I got rid of that woman. I met a hot young Latina shortly after this and I am in an LTR. I love watching the wreckage of this BPD. I truly don't give a damn and laugh. That's the level I am on right now.
 
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You shouldn't care....
 

Just because a woman listens to you and acts interested in what you say doesn't mean she really is. She might just be acting polite, while silently wishing that the date would hurry up and end, or that you would go away... and never come back.

Quote taken from The SoSuave Guide to Women and Dating, which you can read for FREE.

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Haha. OP here. Hey... Y'all are good people for even commenting.

Listen. I knew this post was gonna get flamed. No worries. BPD is a helluva drug. One day you might know... But I sincerely hope not.

Thanks to this site I'm not as vested emotionally as I once was. Did come as a shock I won't deny it.

But you left her for a reason. Probably MANY reasons.

All is well. Hard to let go of your stupid imagination.

Thanks again...
 

What happens, IN HER MIND, is that she comes to see you as WORTHLESS simply because she hasn't had to INVEST anything in you in order to get you or to keep you.

You were an interesting diversion while she had nothing else to do. But now that someone a little more valuable has come along, someone who expects her to treat him very well, she'll have no problem at all dropping you or demoting you to lowly "friendship" status.

Quote taken from The SoSuave Guide to Women and Dating, which you can read for FREE.

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