"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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Jesse James and Sandra Bullock came into my work tonight...

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Originally posted by R3N3GAD3
Wildfyre,

Thats a big tip. You spoiled girl :p

Anyways, you should have taken pictures and sold them to the paparazzi.

Yea yea.
Well, I'm a really good server and did my best to make sure they were able to enjoy their meal. I would never take their picture and sell it to those idiot rag magazines. I don't care if a picture was worth a million dollars...I wouldn't do that. They came to my work to enjoy a meal and it was my job to make sure they got what they came for. I think they really appreciated the way that I didn't treat them like celebrities. I treated them just like I do everyone else and didn't ask annoying questions. That's probably why I got such a good tip. I bet most people that wait on them keep interrupting their meal with stupid questions and an attempt at small talk. I just let them eat in peace and only checked in when drinks were low and dishes needed to be cleared...and I didn't gawk like everyone else in the place did.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Originally posted by comic_relief
Thats cool babe at least something interested happened to you. I just hope that your not out for attention with this:D.

Also I like how you wouldn't bother them with autographs or anything because most stars like that are bugged constantly. The reason that they wanted you to do it was probably because you weren't all "ga ga" over them.
I'm not an attention seeker, despite what a couple individuals here think. It's not everyday you wait on not only one, but two famous celebrities. This incident was "share-worthy".
 
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Originally posted by Wyldfire
Yep...she's really sweet. I had no clue who Jesse James was, but everyone I work with recognized him and didn't notice Sandra. I recognized her but had no idea who he was. They weren't demanding or snotty at all. In fact, they were one of the most pleasant and easy going diners I waited on all day and night. They're crazy about each other, too. She is head over heels for Jesse and kept hugging and kissing him. It was really cute.
Damn, old man's pounding that 5 star p*ssy?!
 

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Originally posted by Dimebag_Darrell
Damn, old man's pounding that 5 star p*ssy?!
Actually, I think she's older than he is. He's very good looking himself...and all the waitresses were trying hard to get a good look at him.
 
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OOOOOOOOOOOHHHHHH!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!


Gotdamn!! I was thinking about James Brown's black ass!! lol holy sh*t!

JESSE JAMES sounds more appropriate ....my bad
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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BTW, last year before I got locked up I was driving my girl home and that weekend my town was having their annual motorcycle, bbq, and blues festival or whatever the hell it was called and Jesse James crazy motorcycle building ass was right behind my ass in a nice yellow chopper...My car was on TV cuz that b*tch was doing a show special where they traveled to fayetteville and they were gonna build a bike in 24 hours or something I don't remember...
 

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Originally posted by Dimebag_Darrell
BTW, last year before I got locked up I was driving my girl home and that weekend my town was having their annual motorcycle, bbq, and blues festival or whatever the hell it was called and Jesse James crazy motorcycle building ass was right behind my ass in a nice yellow chopper...My car was on TV cuz that b*tch was doing a show special where they traveled to fayetteville and they were gonna build a bike in 24 hours or something I don't remember...
You're quite a character.:D
 
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