Jeaolusy...doesn't make sense

[insomniac]

There was a girl who was interested in me. We hung out a lot in a larger group, and went out a few times over the last four months. I wouldn't say I was playing games with her, but just testing the waters to see if I even wanted to get involved with her. She was attractive, but just didn't do enough for me to take it anywhere physically. She'd follow me around like a puppy...when we went out with a group, we'd be the last ones there after everyone left. The last couple times she wanted to do something with me I sort of blew her off. I just didn't feel like hanging out with her.

I'm amazed I held her interest for four months. But, now she's clinging to another guy in the same way as she did with me before. I was expecting that to happen, and though l shouldn't care since I basically nexted her, deep inside it pisses me off...almost like I feel I own her attention. Stupid I know, but amazing how when a woman you reject moves on to some other guy it really gets to you.

 

[al77]

Originally posted by insomniac
There was a girl who was interested in me. We hung out a lot in a larger group, and went out a few times over the last four months. I wouldn't say I was playing games with her, but just testing the waters to see if I even wanted to get involved with her. She was attractive, but just didn't do enough for me to take it anywhere physically. She'd follow me around like a puppy...when we went out with a group, we'd be the last ones there after everyone left.

You didn't rejected her _fully_ if you hang out with her that much of course you would feel a bit jealous.
That is pretty simple. Why - does it bother you?

 

[insomniac]

Alright, I admit there is something there that is enough to upset me. I just got back from a party where this group hangs out..and they showed up together. Apparantly he's more into her than I ever was as they are now showing up at things as a couple, apparantly. Yeah, that could have been me in his place, but I passed on her. Still, it bothers me. Both of us did a great job tonight pretending the other didn't exist.

This girl is maybe a 6, could be an 8 if she made herself up better and didn't act so weird. That's mainly why I passed on her. But still, when I see her and that other guy, it gets to me. The attention given to me is now directed at someone else. Proof that I need to get more women in my life so that stuff like this wouldn't even bother me.

This is more a lesson to me in how women think...she rejects you, but when she sees you with someone else it can drive her crazy.

 

[al77]

Originally posted by insomniac
This is more a lesson to me in how women think...she rejects you, but when she sees you with someone else it can drive her crazy.

I naturally feels this and I never meet with my ex-s.
Dont hang out where she does, pretend she doens't exist for you anymore...it will help.