I'm going to rant for a little bit. I met a new wing this weekend. He seems like a cool dude, and is a friend of a friend. My original wing talked him up, how great he was, how laidback he was, etc. Then I met him in person. He's a good looking, pretty laidback guy. As far as his personality, however, things were different. This new guy just AMOG'ed the living crap out of me the entire night. He would walk into my set, try to completely take over, literally walking between me and the girls. When I tried to be sociable with him, he would not talk back. He completely ignored me. In fact, his first question for me was: "how many women have you banged?" I thought this was kind of an odd way of putting it. Whenever I told him of some of my past adventures, he would sneer: "dude, that sounds like bullsh*t to me."
I was very confused about what was going on. I spoke to him again the next day, just the two of us hanging out at the mall. I was dressed like ****. Gym clothes, hadn't shaved, etc. He seemed much more comfortable around me.
I think what happened is, he was freaking out because I was peacocking and drawing so much female attention, it kicked in an automatic jealousy/competitiveness streak.
I think the lesson to be drawn is this: if you are high value, you have to show some humility and dlv yourself a little bit just to get other people to feel comfortable around you, even guys.
I was very confused about what was going on. I spoke to him again the next day, just the two of us hanging out at the mall. I was dressed like ****. Gym clothes, hadn't shaved, etc. He seemed much more comfortable around me.
I think what happened is, he was freaking out because I was peacocking and drawing so much female attention, it kicked in an automatic jealousy/competitiveness streak.
I think the lesson to be drawn is this: if you are high value, you have to show some humility and dlv yourself a little bit just to get other people to feel comfortable around you, even guys.
