You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.
Originally posted by The Edge
Oh wait indie music is a fukkyn life-style,.... I'm sorry,..
what was I thinking..
My lack of understanding ??? Or your determined attempt to stunt the growth of hip hop.. {Oh and by the way... I use the word your to include all your other idiotic underground brothers and sisters}
Dude in your pathetic attempt to illuminate the rest of us mere mortals about, real hip-hop getting tainted, you forget that all the artists that are on the radio today, rode the underground tread-mill, waiting for the day their deals would go through.
Indie music is a fukkyn wolf-pack of pissed off sorry-I-did-not make- it musicians, who are content with their underground following and dumbass underage puss.
So as not to have a sorry-ass snot-slinging-fest with a fykkyn hippie, which is what you are, I conclude by giving you kudos : telling you to lift up the cause and fight for the 'real ness' BRO!!!
Yep..continue living your life... In Pluto.
Edge
Oh,.. and you can tell all your 'real' brothers what I think of them over coffee at Starbucks..
Actually that looks to me like he's really pissed off. The girl ain't doin shiet cause she knows he'll fvck her up and won't get help from the people around cause no one is gonna fvck with big star Jay Z.Originally posted by Tha Realnezz
But that video was in "Backstage" too though.She just poking fun at him,he looked like he was just playing with her.
Average Generic rapper>John Lennon.
girls like dudes who can rap, often even if theyre not rich they are smooth talkers who hve a way with words. and despite what some of the backpackers may think jay-z is one of the best rappers aliveOriginally posted by skeeloo
chicks listen to jigga because of the chedar simple as that.
You are what people call a hypocryte. You are so quick to call him pigeon-holed when your entire lifestyle...indie lifestyle... centers around being pegion-holed..Originally posted by Interpol
His last two albums have been terrible, because he's stuck in his pigeonhole that he can never get out of - the angry white guy who had a sh*tty childhood, hates his mom and ex-wife, and loves his daughter. And he poses with no shirt in teeny-bopper magazines and acts like he's "keeping it real". Yeah, whatever.
Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.
Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers. Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.
I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.
So, before Eminem got famous, he was bad? all of a sudden he became a good rapper? In '97, Only a few people knew Eminem. When he realesed "My name is" in '99 that got over-played on the radios, you'd be stupid not to know him!!Originally posted by Levex
Underground music is underground because it sucks. The good bands/rappers that do make it on the main stage get labeled "sell outs" because they actually want to make some money from their music and stop performing on piss-covered stages for minimum wage.
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
You can't be serious.Originally posted by Levex
Underground music is underground because it sucks. The good bands/rappers that do make it on the main stage get labeled "sell outs" because they actually want to make some money from their music and stop performing on piss-covered stages for minimum wage.
Originally posted by m4a1
Money/fame doesn't = skills