I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
Originally posted by The Edge
Oh wait indie music is a fukkyn life-style,.... I'm sorry,..
what was I thinking..
My lack of understanding ??? Or your determined attempt to stunt the growth of hip hop.. {Oh and by the way... I use the word your to include all your other idiotic underground brothers and sisters}
Dude in your pathetic attempt to illuminate the rest of us mere mortals about, real hip-hop getting tainted, you forget that all the artists that are on the radio today, rode the underground tread-mill, waiting for the day their deals would go through.
Indie music is a fukkyn wolf-pack of pissed off sorry-I-did-not make- it musicians, who are content with their underground following and dumbass underage puss.
So as not to have a sorry-ass snot-slinging-fest with a fykkyn hippie, which is what you are, I conclude by giving you kudos : telling you to lift up the cause and fight for the 'real ness' BRO!!!
Yep..continue living your life... In Pluto.
Edge
Oh,.. and you can tell all your 'real' brothers what I think of them over coffee at Starbucks..
Actually that looks to me like he's really pissed off. The girl ain't doin shiet cause she knows he'll fvck her up and won't get help from the people around cause no one is gonna fvck with big star Jay Z.Originally posted by Tha Realnezz
But that video was in "Backstage" too though.She just poking fun at him,he looked like he was just playing with her.
Average Generic rapper>John Lennon.
girls like dudes who can rap, often even if theyre not rich they are smooth talkers who hve a way with words. and despite what some of the backpackers may think jay-z is one of the best rappers aliveOriginally posted by skeeloo
chicks listen to jigga because of the chedar simple as that.
You are what people call a hypocryte. You are so quick to call him pigeon-holed when your entire lifestyle...indie lifestyle... centers around being pegion-holed..Originally posted by Interpol
His last two albums have been terrible, because he's stuck in his pigeonhole that he can never get out of - the angry white guy who had a sh*tty childhood, hates his mom and ex-wife, and loves his daughter. And he poses with no shirt in teeny-bopper magazines and acts like he's "keeping it real". Yeah, whatever.
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
So, before Eminem got famous, he was bad? all of a sudden he became a good rapper? In '97, Only a few people knew Eminem. When he realesed "My name is" in '99 that got over-played on the radios, you'd be stupid not to know him!!Originally posted by Levex
Underground music is underground because it sucks. The good bands/rappers that do make it on the main stage get labeled "sell outs" because they actually want to make some money from their music and stop performing on piss-covered stages for minimum wage.
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.
You can't be serious.Originally posted by Levex
Underground music is underground because it sucks. The good bands/rappers that do make it on the main stage get labeled "sell outs" because they actually want to make some money from their music and stop performing on piss-covered stages for minimum wage.
Originally posted by m4a1
Money/fame doesn't = skills