Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single

She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.

You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.

The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.

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Japanese man arrested for dating 35+!! Women at the same time...

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Kind of scuzzy move trying to get a whole bunch of women to buy him birthday presents using different birthdays but damn! Dude must have serious game and serious chick management skills.

Definitely doesn't look the part of a dude who women would swoon over. Also interesting is these women were all in after he told them that he was only dating them and he wanted to spend the rest of his life with them. How do some guys make that work?? Isn't this supposed to be a huge no no?

 
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“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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Kind of scuzzy move trying to get a whole bunch of women to buy him birthday presents using different birthdays but damn! Dude must have serious game and serious chick management skills.

Definitely doesn't look the part of a dude who women would swoon over. Also interesting is these women were all in after he told them that he was only dating them and he wanted to spend the rest of his life with them. How do some guys make that work?? Isn't this supposed to be a huge no no?

For him to make it happen he had GAME. Now keep in mind this exact scam is a scam females use on men, and they are backpatted for it. Someone who doesn't have the "looks" or the "stuff" is a good example to use for RAW GAME. It wasn't their look or stuff that drew her it his game, how he managed himself and how he managed her.
 
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Kind of scuzzy move trying to get a whole bunch of women to buy him birthday presents using different birthdays but damn! Dude must have serious game and serious chick management skills.

Definitely doesn't look the part of a dude who women would swoon over. Also interesting is these women were all in after he told them that he was only dating them and he wanted to spend the rest of his life with them. How do some guys make that work?? Isn't this supposed to be a huge no no?

There also is an epidemic of loneliness and social isolation in Japan that is at a whole different level than what we see here in the U.S and other modern countries. I remember watching several mini documentaries on youtube about cuddle cafes and other things related to both men and women essentially paying other people to socialize with them, cuddle with them, etc. I'm honestly not all that surprised by any of this with the man dating 35 women simultaneously. He was probably reasonably attractive, had good social skills and was very charismatic. These women were probably just very lonely and enjoyed having a man to talk to, and I'd wager that many of them were attractive and otherwise relatively normal people.

 

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Kind of scuzzy move trying to get a whole bunch of women to buy him birthday presents using different birthdays but damn! Dude must have serious game and serious chick management skills.

Definitely doesn't look the part of a dude who women would swoon over. Also interesting is these women were all in after he told them that he was only dating them and he wanted to spend the rest of his life with them. How do some guys make that work?? Isn't this supposed to be a huge no no?

Was that modern life Jon? Wait. This would imply more then one.

Lulz
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Definitely doesn't look the part of a dude who women would swoon over. Also interesting is these women were all in after he told them that he was only dating them and he wanted to spend the rest of his life with them. How do some guys make that work?? Isn't this supposed to be a huge no no?
Ages of women: 35, 40, 47...

It‘s huge no no if the girl is young and sexy and fertile and has options. If the women is FORTY+, you can pretty much do whatever the hell you want.

Sosuave is generally for men to attract hot, young, women. If you need Sosuave to attract 40+ year old women, you got bigger problems.
 

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You can get arrested for frauding feelings in a relationship? Prisons in the west would be full of millions of women then


For him to make it happen he had GAME. Now keep in mind this exact scam is a scam females use on men, and they are backpatted for it. Someone who doesn't have the "looks" or the "stuff" is a good example to use for RAW GAME. It wasn't their look or stuff that drew her it his game, how he managed himself and how he managed her.
It makes me think, what happens if we all report women who lie to the police. Imagine women going to jail for flaking or ghosting.
 

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What the F was he even arrested for?

The guy's a genius and let's face it, he achieved an impossible level as a man. I'm proud of him as a fellow man.
Same thing they do to us. Remember the girl that had 20 "boyfriends" buy her an expensive iPhone which she returned each one and used the cash for a house downpayment?
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Kind of scuzzy move trying to get a whole bunch of women to buy him birthday presents using different birthdays but damn! Dude must have serious game and serious chick management skills.

Definitely doesn't look the part of a dude who women would swoon over. Also interesting is these women were all in after he told them that he was only dating them and he wanted to spend the rest of his life with them. How do some guys make that work?? Isn't this supposed to be a huge no no?

If a woman does it, noone cares.

A woman can defraud 1000 guys and the police will just laugh at them if they turn up at a police station to complain about it.
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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The guy should come here and tell us about his exploits.
 

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I read the original article and still could not understand under which law he was "arrested" for?

Women have been defrauding emotionally and financially many guys at the same time SINCE THE DAWN OF TIME and nobody cares, but when a guy returns the favour he gets arrested? Ridiculous.
 
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If he worked for an establishment there would have been no issues. Yakuza don't like people cutting in on their business. Christ in Utsunomiya, I refused to pay a sit down tax one day and the guy and his friend behind the bar tried to beat the crap out of me. Its a very different culture.
 

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If a woman does it, noone cares.

A woman can defraud 1000 guys and the police will just laugh at them if they turn up at a police station to complain about it.
We don't know that. To my knowledge no guys have gotten together and reported them to the police for it in Japan.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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