loismustdie8000
Don Juan
Well i have college tomorrow so hell if they look at me wired my goal is 30 for tomorrow!
"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
January 16 BootCamp
- Thread starter Brian20o2
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"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"
You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.
She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.
Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.
Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.
shrewd
Don Juan
Well i just got back from town...nobody really made EC at all, except for 1 guy around my age who i nodded to and he nodded back. I talked to a bunch of clerks just to get me more socialized.
I find the hardest thing is that nobody wants to make EC with you..atleast not on the street. I'm taking a bus to class tonight though so we'll see how that goes.
I find the hardest thing is that nobody wants to make EC with you..atleast not on the street. I'm taking a bus to class tonight though so we'll see how that goes.
Brian20o2
Master Don Juan
Im gonna walk down to my local mall tonight. Exercise + Bootcamp. I now have 7/50 goal for tonight is 20/50
IS|Reinhart
Don Juan
I actually spoke to 5 hot unknown girls and i can say that 3 of them atleast were interested in me. general conversation 5-15 minuts long it was fun. did around 10 hi's and ECs. will do more today! atleast 5 more!!!
Good luck and hope to hear from you on sunday about sarging on friday or saturday night!
Keep up the good work.
"Knowing is not enough. You must APPLY"
"Willing is not enough. You must DO"
Good luck and hope to hear from you on sunday about sarging on friday or saturday night!
Keep up the good work.
"Knowing is not enough. You must APPLY"
"Willing is not enough. You must DO"
shrewd
Don Juan
Day 1 is over...actually more of a half day but w.e...only got 4or 5 good solid EC's but it wasn't from lack of trying, everyone seems to find a way to look somewhere else. One good thing that happened was in psyc class i sat beside some cute chick i didn't know and talked to her for a bit before class began, and on the bus home i smiled and made EC with 2 girls, one smiled back and kept ec, one looked away but she hovered around me till the bus came. I should have made some comment about her hat or something but w.e...baby steps.
Tommorow i plan on doing 10 hello's and smiles , and i'm gonna work my way up by 5 till i have 50.
Later guys.
Tommorow i plan on doing 10 hello's and smiles , and i'm gonna work my way up by 5 till i have 50.
Later guys.
"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"
When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.
Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.
Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.
The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.
screw that man, you all you have to do is look them in the face and say hi. They can be old if you want, and they never seem to answer anyways. If you have trouble doing that, you will have trouble in the future of bootcamp. Just do you best
Shocker
Shocker
IS|Reinhart
Don Juan
Good job!! Trully good job! Remember if the girl is ignoring u probably she is snoby and insecure just for the fun try to talk to them and u will see how LOW their social SKILLZ! its amazing!!
Bhekizwe
Don Juan
Dont be hating,bro.Let these brothers do the best they can to get out of the cacoons they r in.Its good to know that some dj do something to improve their experiental knowledge so that the become more competent in using their social skills
loismustdie8000
Don Juan
your right dude I will get 30 today!
"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
IS|Reinhart
Don Juan
OK today is hursday! So guys make sure by the end of the day post ur results of sarging and hello's. So far i'm done with any eye contacts and i have about 25 hello's left.
mrswabe
Don Juan
cute girls giggling
For 2 days work I already have 27 ECs. Some of them with smiles, and some with Hi's. There are also few where the girl will just look down, while others would look away.
HIGHPOINT
While I was at our college library I saw two girls whom I have noticed to be around there before at those times.
I made eye contact with the less cute one ( but they're both hot ) and acknowledged it with a nod. She smiled at me and she nudged her friend( the cuter one ) to look at me. This one also made eye contact and smiled at me. They were both giggling and it looks as if they were becoming unsettled.
I was becoming anxious and self-conscious due to this. I wanted to approach but didn't because I am afraid to waste this good oppurtunity.
I know that they will be there this Tuesday, so I'm gonna approach them by then.
Guys, what would be some good openers for this? Give me a plan of attack. I want to number close the cuter one.
For 2 days work I already have 27 ECs. Some of them with smiles, and some with Hi's. There are also few where the girl will just look down, while others would look away.
HIGHPOINT
While I was at our college library I saw two girls whom I have noticed to be around there before at those times.
I made eye contact with the less cute one ( but they're both hot ) and acknowledged it with a nod. She smiled at me and she nudged her friend( the cuter one ) to look at me. This one also made eye contact and smiled at me. They were both giggling and it looks as if they were becoming unsettled.
I was becoming anxious and self-conscious due to this. I wanted to approach but didn't because I am afraid to waste this good oppurtunity.
I know that they will be there this Tuesday, so I'm gonna approach them by then.
Guys, what would be some good openers for this? Give me a plan of attack. I want to number close the cuter one.
I went to the mall again for some more hello's and honestly it is a lot harder then I thought. Not that saying hi is hard, just that no one looks at you. Everyone is in their bubble.
I was in a store and I found that if you see someone looking at something on the shelf, go over and look at the same thing they have in their hand (as long as it isnt tampons), they will look at you and move over a step, thats where you smile and say hello. I found this easier to do.
Shocker
I was in a store and I found that if you see someone looking at something on the shelf, go over and look at the same thing they have in their hand (as long as it isnt tampons), they will look at you and move over a step, thats where you smile and say hello. I found this easier to do.
Shocker
"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.
IS|Reinhart
Don Juan
DOESN"T COUNT! get ECs and Hellos outside your job. I'm selling ladies shoes and having 50-100 ECs and Hellos a day. Its easy because u have to its ur JOB! But outside when u are in school or mall its hard! Do it outside man!
I spoke to 3 girls so far for like 10 minuts and 4 Hellos. Thursday.
Remember Sarging on Friday or Saturday!
I agree, it shouldnt count but it also depends on the job. If you are a greeter at a restraunt for example you would have 50 by the end of your shift. Thats why I count them as .5 and to do most of this on my days off.
Shocker
shrewd
Don Juan
I get the exact same thing, people will actually go to an effort to avoid looking at you. I said 2 hellos so far today, neither responded though. I also talked to a couple bums...it seems the only people on the street who will make EC with you are the ones begging for change
Oh well i'm off to the campus bookstore in a bit hopefully i can strike up some conversations there...
Originally posted by shrewd
I get the exact same thing, people will actually go to an effort to avoid looking at you. I said 2 hellos so far today, neither responded though. I also talked to a couple bums...it seems the only people on the street who will make EC with you are the ones begging for change
Oh well i'm off to the campus bookstore in a bit hopefully i can strike up some conversations there...
Talked to some bums? lol, too funny. Just curious, what did you say
IS|Reinhart
Don Juan
Good job remember if they do not want to socialize with u then ITS SOMETHING WRONG WITH THEM!! not with u! When my friend who was born in USA went to Poland (he is 20 ) 1st thing he noticed People were giving him EYE CONTACTS everybody! so remember people do not want to give u ECs or answer ur hello that means they are afraid of u! THATS AWESOME! that means in that particular situation u are ALPHA> atleast the way i see it!Originally posted by shrewd
I get the exact same thing, people will actually go to an effort to avoid looking at you. I said 2 hellos so far today, neither responded though. I also talked to a couple bums...it seems the only people on the street who will make EC with you are the ones begging for change
Oh well i'm off to the campus bookstore in a bit hopefully i can strike up some conversations there...
I was socializing with girls a lot today. 1 didn't want to talk to me, actually she did talk to me but it was 1 way conversation so i just said "nice meeting u BYE!" and speed up my pace she was shocked as we were going same direction for atleast half a mile.
"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.