"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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January 16 BootCamp

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I guess it doesnt really matter, i was just thinking so people keep it all one page and so we can go back and read how people have come along. and so people dont post in the wrong spots and such.

but I dont really care that much, so whatever

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"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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I'm not really following this EC and "Hello".

I just meet new people and if I feel like talking, I talk.. and do what I can in terms of convo. Otherwise, I say "Hello, how are you? Good? See you later..." and move on. I'm just using this as practice until week 4. Then the real challenge begins. (for me)
 

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Originally posted by brucevangeorge
I'm not really following this EC and "Hello".

I just meet new people and if I feel like talking, I talk.. and do what I can in terms of convo. Otherwise, I say "Hello, how are you? Good? See you later..." and move on. I'm just using this as practice until week 4. Then the real challenge begins. (for me)
still if u want in this bootcamp you would have to try to do same stuff that we are doing here. Working as a team helps us to motivate each other.
 

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My computers bin knackered for the las week.

Here it is. Im catching up so will be days behind you. I will follow you all but just later on. This is because im starting the BC 8 days late but will still post progress.
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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