"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Jailed gang leader seduces and impregnates four of his guards

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Stories like this make modern western society seem like the most socially ignorant society in the history of the entire human race.
 

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I have to question the quality of these women. I don't think prison guard women are known for being the most attractive. I also have to question whether or not coercion was involved on some level, since he is a prison gang leader and also has outside connections. I don't think it's as simple as "he was so smooth" etc etc. Probably multiple things going on and no real way to tell if other factors weren't the main reason for this. Although I've heard that con men and convicts can be pretty charismatic when they want to be or at least convincing, which they use as a means to either con people or to gain a person's trust to get what they want.
 

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Danger said:
I don't think one can discount what you say.....but looking at the larger story, a couple of those girls got tattoos of his name on their necks.

Additionally, we all know of women's propensity for "Bad Boys" and there is a plethora of documentation on women's love for the dark triad.....serial killers and such as a good example.

I am inclined this is just another extension of women unable to control their libido for a man that gets them wet. Unfortunately those men tend to be the scum of society with nothing to lose.
I've actually mentioned something before similar to this. As much as I am for self-improvement and am a big fan of being your best self, in the end, a woman who is attracted to you won't care whether you're a man of high or low moral character. The main thing they respond to is whether or not they feel some form of sexual attraction towards you.

This puts the good guy, the bad boy, the jailbird, the police man, the soldier, and many others we group together as good guys and bad guys, in the same boat when it comes to whether or not women will be attracted to you. This can be pretty disturbing to some but in the end, we have to look at how the world actually works vs. how we want it to be.

I'll say it again. If a woman is sexually attracted to you, your moral character is irrelevant. Good or bad, this is the truth. Usually the road to self-improvement can lead to more women, but to say that it's 100% necessary is contradicted every day. There are men that you and I do NOT admire, that we feel are of low character, who get women. Of course, certain men may be more likely to get women of a certain level of character similar to their own (think of the drug dealer who has a bunch of female drug addicts who give him sexual favors).

This might not always be the case but many times it definitely is.
 

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The road to self-improvement can lead to a higher probability of getting QUALITY women but if you don't care about that path, you probably aren't too concerned about the quality of a woman's character and are simply after what is visually pleasing with zero concern for whether or not she has some serious issues.

The good guy wants the best of both worlds so he looks for a woman of quality looks and character, while continually maintaining or improving his good character.
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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If you read the article, it said the inmates specifically targeted those guards with low confidence and self-esteem issues, so, in combination with the fact that they're prison guards, I think we can safely assume these were fat, ugly, or both.
 

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He probably pays them $1000 a week each. That, in cash, is a lot of money for many women.
 

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Aristippus said:
I have to question the quality of these women. I don't think prison guard women are known for being the most attractive. I also have to question whether or not coercion was involved on some level, since he is a prison gang leader and also has outside connections. I don't think it's as simple as "he was so smooth" etc etc. Probably multiple things going on and no real way to tell if other factors weren't the main reason for this. Although I've heard that con men and convicts can be pretty charismatic when they want to be or at least convincing, which they use as a means to either con people or to gain a person's trust to get what they want.
According to the article they targeted insecure broads.

The Post reports that an affidavit for search warrants of the guards’ homes stated that the gang “strategically recruited female officers who they thought had ‘low self-esteem and insecurities.
 

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Slevin said:
According to the article they targeted insecure broads.
If they are "insecure" individuals they should not be allowed to do such jobs, wheter there are quotas or not.
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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mrRuckus said:
Are the women charged with rape?
The charge they should get is even worse. It's called "custodial rape" and is based upon violating a position of trust. Of course that charge was designed for male cops and guards who have sex with female inmates, but the law is supposed to apply the same under these circumstances. It is up to the discretion of the prosecutor and the judge, though. I doubt they will be punished the same as a man who did the same thing.
 

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Aristippus said:
The road to self-improvement can lead to a higher probability of getting QUALITY women
I have to ask the question. Is there such a thing as QUALITY women?

We are saying in this thread that there are "quality" women and non-quality women.

Maybe we should say there are lower and better quality because I am not sure if there is such a thing as QUALITY women in relation to this story.

What I mean by that is that the QUALITY women that you speak of would very much likely end up f____ the gang leader just like those security guards if the gang leader got to them.

You underestimate the power of an alpha male. QUALITY women?? I say all women can be turned into hors just like the prison guards here. There are better quality women out there but even them can easily be turned into hors by the sheer power of raw masculinity of an alpha male such as is the case in the story.
 

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bullshyte. A brad pitt,maybe, but lesser guys, not a chance in hell. not if the gals have MONEY.
 
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