"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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"I've never had an orgasm"

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Have any of you had a girl who has claimed this before? A girl I'm talking to right now (all she's done is give me head) said that she's never gotten off before from sex, eating out, fingering, etc. She said a lot of guys have thought it was a challenge or something and they couldn't do it.

Are there girls who just don't get off? She doesn't want to have sex right away but I figure I could change her mind if I could lick her out right. Only thing is I have never done it before. I'm seeing her this weekend. Any suggestions?
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Read up on it, get some info on what to do and get to work.

Just don't choke on pubic hair or anything.
 
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It either means she's watched to much T.V. or read to many romance novels that it's altered her perception of an orgasm.

You can have sex with a girl all night, do all the right things but if her mind isn't into, she won't have one.

This girl doesn't know how to have one.
 
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Faded Image said:
It either means she's watched to much T.V. or read to many romance novels that it's altered her perception of an orgasm.

You can have sex with a girl all night, do all the right things but if her mind isn't into, she won't have one.

This girl doesn't know how to have one.
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i know about the whole "mental stimulation" thing...and i find it hard to believe this girl hasn't been with a guy who knows what he's doing. i'm all for getting head and fvcking the **** out of her til I'm through, but its a lot better if she's getting pleasure out of it.

am i just out of luck?
 
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Orgasm 101:
Intro: If you know you cvm prematurely, masturbate before anything... less you risking the moment.
Step 1: Ensure that she takes a good shower and is properly CLEAN down there. ( in fact take shower together)
Step 2: Get yourself and herself in the MOOD. (start by kiss touching her at her sensitive places (neck, eye, and tits) aka smooching. Remember to take things slow.
step 3: Don't try to kiss her until about 5 minutes into smooching. ( all this time her pant is certain to be wet). Then kiss s.l.o.w.l.y then pull back. Ha...
step 4: Go for the titty and suck on it like you're from an orphanage. Give it a light bit. Don't bit too much... then move on to the pvssy. Give it a little tongue then pull up and say
You: " do you like that??? "
Her: "oh... yeah... keep going"

Got the gist!
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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She has to be attracted to you, and totally relaxed. She has to trust you.

Don't tell her "I'm going to give you an orgasm", that puts her under pressure to "perform."

All women are able to have an orgasm.

Lots of foreplay, lots of kissing, and lots of oral sex. Read up on the "G spot" and "deep spot" (Google them.) Tease her (two steps forward, one step back.)
 
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