"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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"I've never had an orgasm"

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Have any of you had a girl who has claimed this before? A girl I'm talking to right now (all she's done is give me head) said that she's never gotten off before from sex, eating out, fingering, etc. She said a lot of guys have thought it was a challenge or something and they couldn't do it.

Are there girls who just don't get off? She doesn't want to have sex right away but I figure I could change her mind if I could lick her out right. Only thing is I have never done it before. I'm seeing her this weekend. Any suggestions?
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Read up on it, get some info on what to do and get to work.

Just don't choke on pubic hair or anything.
 
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It either means she's watched to much T.V. or read to many romance novels that it's altered her perception of an orgasm.

You can have sex with a girl all night, do all the right things but if her mind isn't into, she won't have one.

This girl doesn't know how to have one.
 
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Faded Image said:
It either means she's watched to much T.V. or read to many romance novels that it's altered her perception of an orgasm.

You can have sex with a girl all night, do all the right things but if her mind isn't into, she won't have one.

This girl doesn't know how to have one.
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i know about the whole "mental stimulation" thing...and i find it hard to believe this girl hasn't been with a guy who knows what he's doing. i'm all for getting head and fvcking the **** out of her til I'm through, but its a lot better if she's getting pleasure out of it.

am i just out of luck?
 
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Orgasm 101:
Intro: If you know you cvm prematurely, masturbate before anything... less you risking the moment.
Step 1: Ensure that she takes a good shower and is properly CLEAN down there. ( in fact take shower together)
Step 2: Get yourself and herself in the MOOD. (start by kiss touching her at her sensitive places (neck, eye, and tits) aka smooching. Remember to take things slow.
step 3: Don't try to kiss her until about 5 minutes into smooching. ( all this time her pant is certain to be wet). Then kiss s.l.o.w.l.y then pull back. Ha...
step 4: Go for the titty and suck on it like you're from an orphanage. Give it a light bit. Don't bit too much... then move on to the pvssy. Give it a little tongue then pull up and say
You: " do you like that??? "
Her: "oh... yeah... keep going"

Got the gist!
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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She has to be attracted to you, and totally relaxed. She has to trust you.

Don't tell her "I'm going to give you an orgasm", that puts her under pressure to "perform."

All women are able to have an orgasm.

Lots of foreplay, lots of kissing, and lots of oral sex. Read up on the "G spot" and "deep spot" (Google them.) Tease her (two steps forward, one step back.)
 
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