"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Ive had one of the weirdest nights..

TRSX

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So im out with this chick, and we're just having a blast. The comedy show was awesome, we were both laughing.. she was giving me HUGE IOI's - hanging all over me blah blah blah

So after the show we decided to hit some more bars, hang out have a good time....

Well then we got back to my car and started making out and she was like "do you like me?" and i said yeah you're cool why dont you get in the car and we'll talk about it, or you can come over to my place.

All of the sudden she turned on a dime. She all of the sudden got really stand off'ish and was like "I DONT DO THAT KINDA STUFF AND IM REALLY OFFENDED AT THOSE WORDS blah blah blah" -- I'm thinking to myself, yeah maybe i was a bit aggressive, but **** man, shes 8 years older then me, shes not ****ing dumb. This was our 3rd date and I had to escalate it somehow. Anyways it took a while to calm her down.

Shes trying to convince me that I did nothing wrong she was just offput by the 6-8 words i said. Im like we just spent 5 hours together on this date.. and now you're pissed at 8 words???

So we get in my car, we're all hanging out and whatever I drive her back to her spot and we hardcore make out, im grabbing titties and ****, and shes LOVING it. So then im like so ill see you on friday you come over and watch a movie...

Dime turn again. - "You just assume that im gonna see you on this date? No, see now im really seeing that youre just ****y."

uh.. okay..

So then we're making out again and shes loving it and she gets out of my car and is like alright drive safe.

I get a text from her 5 minutes later: "Awww i'm worried now, didnt know it was so late! Come back if you need to"

So i just reply: "Gnight :)"

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What is this blasphemy?
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Greasy Pig

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Search the forums for "anti slut defence" (ASD) and "last minute resistance" (LMR).
You're not alone in this fvcked up situation.
 

seethehoop

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Don't think this is asd. Sounds more like drama queen or signs of a bpd to me. Nut Job. Be weary of this one.
 

SgtSplacker

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Bang her in the car next time stop trying to plan things. And keep trying her it turns her on.
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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TRSX

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Yeah dude, im not ****in walkin on eggshells anymore.

This girl was obviously offended by what I said, and i can respect that - but at the same time I can't just magically turn back time and come up with a better way of saying it, or not saying it at all.

So i told her I didn't want her to feel uncomfortable but she had this like look and attitude that I was gonna rape her in my car. Chill the **** out?

I can already tell what kind of girl this is.. but im gonna try this one last time (Something 100% sober and chill), if we get the same results - im nexting her.

Ill keep you updated
 

pdx1138

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I would have expected her to be ok with that after a third date and a fun one at that.

After dealing with some of this myself from a BPD chick, I decided not to talk about such things. Just take action and go for it. If you then talk about on another date, after doing the deed and she says the same kind of thing....NEXT her.
 

marmel75

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Just fvck the attitude out of her...she'll learn to respect the c0ck...
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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