"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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I've got another one to throw at you Don Juans

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thegrandillusion

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So recently I posted about a girl who I sort of liked and wanted to get to know better... yada yada ya. Anyway...

Today I thought I'd confide with my best guy friend who I liked. He proceeded to abruptly say he "had to go" and didn't text me for a good 30 minutes... and suspicion instantly arose :woo:

Yes, he and I both have feelings for the same girl. Thing is, I don't know if she likes me or if she likes him. I don't know who the hell she likes. So... the question is... what do I do? This is my best, brother-like guy friend I'm talking about here. And I'm almost certain he has no chance with her... but do I back down and let him have it? Or go for it and risk our friendship? He's not the most social guy and I would feel pretty bad hurting his confidence.
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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Girls come and go but good friend stay forever. I remember having this exact same situation with my best friend. We talked about it, looked at the situation and saw which one had more options, which one had a more realistic shot with the girl and then it was done.

Talk it over with you're friend.
 
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