"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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I've got another one to throw at you Don Juans

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thegrandillusion

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So recently I posted about a girl who I sort of liked and wanted to get to know better... yada yada ya. Anyway...

Today I thought I'd confide with my best guy friend who I liked. He proceeded to abruptly say he "had to go" and didn't text me for a good 30 minutes... and suspicion instantly arose :woo:

Yes, he and I both have feelings for the same girl. Thing is, I don't know if she likes me or if she likes him. I don't know who the hell she likes. So... the question is... what do I do? This is my best, brother-like guy friend I'm talking about here. And I'm almost certain he has no chance with her... but do I back down and let him have it? Or go for it and risk our friendship? He's not the most social guy and I would feel pretty bad hurting his confidence.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Girls come and go but good friend stay forever. I remember having this exact same situation with my best friend. We talked about it, looked at the situation and saw which one had more options, which one had a more realistic shot with the girl and then it was done.

Talk it over with you're friend.
 
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