I've got another one to throw at you Don Juans

[thegrandillusion]

So recently I posted about a girl who I sort of liked and wanted to get to know better... yada yada ya. Anyway...

Today I thought I'd confide with my best guy friend who I liked. He proceeded to abruptly say he "had to go" and didn't text me for a good 30 minutes... and suspicion instantly arose :woo:

Yes, he and I both have feelings for the same girl. Thing is, I don't know if she likes me or if she likes him. I don't know who the hell she likes. So... the question is... what do I do? This is my best, brother-like guy friend I'm talking about here. And I'm almost certain he has no chance with her... but do I back down and let him have it? Or go for it and risk our friendship? He's not the most social guy and I would feel pretty bad hurting his confidence.

 

[eastcoast15]

Talk to him about it. If you care that much about the friendship you guys should be able to work a solution out instead of going behind his back about it.

 

[LearningSlowly]

He who acts first deserves the girl.

 

[alxrose04]

Girls come and go but good friend stay forever. I remember having this exact same situation with my best friend. We talked about it, looked at the situation and saw which one had more options, which one had a more realistic shot with the girl and then it was done.

Talk it over with you're friend.