"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.
Ive found the most pathetic male Ive ever come across.....................
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"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
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I’ve never cringed so much
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Nothing and nobody can get through to this chap. Only he can rescue himself
"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"
When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.
Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.
Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.
The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.
ye , but gay guys sleeping with women is a different game all togheter
basically a gay guy can get away with saying stupid simp sh1t
Yeah and these "Gay" guys also get away with all kinds of BS like feeling up girls' tits and groping them and all kinds of stuff that would be considered sexual harassment or even worse if done by a straight guy. I have seen it and the girls go right along with it and encourage it too even when the gay dudes didnt even ask first.
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That's a bit of an exaggeration. Male sexlessness has been high for a while now but it isn't that high.
Not surprising at all. Men are turned on by two feminine looking women having sex with each other.
he has two sons i beleive
I do not think so , but even if he does , still the gay comment is legit , as no gay guy is 100% gay
usually gay guys are bisexual , and are gay because they are quite hedonistic in terms of sex , and being gay you have more action then being straight
"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.