"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."
Attraction runs on a clock.
She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.
The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."
One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.
Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.
Ive found the most pathetic male Ive ever come across.....................
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"I just moved here from Florida."
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
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I’ve never cringed so much
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Nothing and nobody can get through to this chap. Only he can rescue himself
"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
ye , but gay guys sleeping with women is a different game all togheter
basically a gay guy can get away with saying stupid simp sh1t
Yeah and these "Gay" guys also get away with all kinds of BS like feeling up girls' tits and groping them and all kinds of stuff that would be considered sexual harassment or even worse if done by a straight guy. I have seen it and the girls go right along with it and encourage it too even when the gay dudes didnt even ask first.
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That's a bit of an exaggeration. Male sexlessness has been high for a while now but it isn't that high.
Not surprising at all. Men are turned on by two feminine looking women having sex with each other.
he has two sons i beleive
I do not think so , but even if he does , still the gay comment is legit , as no gay guy is 100% gay
usually gay guys are bisexual , and are gay because they are quite hedonistic in terms of sex , and being gay you have more action then being straight
"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.