"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
Ive found the most pathetic male Ive ever come across.....................
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"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
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I’ve never cringed so much
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Nothing and nobody can get through to this chap. Only he can rescue himself
"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
ye , but gay guys sleeping with women is a different game all togheter
basically a gay guy can get away with saying stupid simp sh1t
Yeah and these "Gay" guys also get away with all kinds of BS like feeling up girls' tits and groping them and all kinds of stuff that would be considered sexual harassment or even worse if done by a straight guy. I have seen it and the girls go right along with it and encourage it too even when the gay dudes didnt even ask first.
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That's a bit of an exaggeration. Male sexlessness has been high for a while now but it isn't that high.
Not surprising at all. Men are turned on by two feminine looking women having sex with each other.
he has two sons i beleive
I do not think so , but even if he does , still the gay comment is legit , as no gay guy is 100% gay
usually gay guys are bisexual , and are gay because they are quite hedonistic in terms of sex , and being gay you have more action then being straight
"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.