"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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I've been hanging out with my ex since her bf is gone temporarily

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Phonk Beta

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My ex asked me to have dinner with her about a week ago. Her current bf is away on a business trip. Every night, she's been asking me to have dinner with her or just hang out with her. Every time we do, she always brings up all the fun times we had together. Sometimes, we talk about how things would be like if we were still together.

I suspect she's using me to fill the void in her life for the time being.

What do you guys think? Does she still have feelings for me? I still care about her but not as much as I used to.
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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She's using you to waste time. You might as well take the opportunity and just bang her. =/
 
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NewMan

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You want her.

She knows it.

You've yet to make a move.

If you were to step up to the plate and get some pvssy - then fine. Otherwise forget it.
 
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DJDamage

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What is it that you want to do? if you want to bang her and walk away you have a chance.

I will not recommand going back with this chick. This is a manipulative wh0re going behind her boyfriend back and talking to you. If she did this to him, she will do this to you (remember why you two broke in the first place, in most cases the past always repeats itself.)

I suspect she's using me to fill the void in her life for the time being.
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If your gut is telling you this, then it is probably true. You know her well enough to arrive to this conclusion.
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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Think of why you two broke up in the first place.

Bust your DJ moves on her, make her wants you but cant have you. Get a new gf while you're at it please!
 
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Bad idea - be a man and walk away.

She sounds as if she deserves to be treated like crap!
 
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Luscious

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Listen to these guys - they are spot on.

Either hit it and quit it or move on. There is absolutely no way you can go long-term on this, you can only snag a nice little hit and run.
 
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It could be that or it could be she may want to get back with you.

Go for the bang and be cool about the whole situation while not dedicating 100% to her.
 
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