"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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I've been hanging out with my ex since her bf is gone temporarily

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Phonk Beta

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My ex asked me to have dinner with her about a week ago. Her current bf is away on a business trip. Every night, she's been asking me to have dinner with her or just hang out with her. Every time we do, she always brings up all the fun times we had together. Sometimes, we talk about how things would be like if we were still together.

I suspect she's using me to fill the void in her life for the time being.

What do you guys think? Does she still have feelings for me? I still care about her but not as much as I used to.
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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DJ Hawtness

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She's using you to waste time. You might as well take the opportunity and just bang her. =/
 
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NewMan

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You want her.

She knows it.

You've yet to make a move.

If you were to step up to the plate and get some pvssy - then fine. Otherwise forget it.
 
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DJDamage

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What is it that you want to do? if you want to bang her and walk away you have a chance.

I will not recommand going back with this chick. This is a manipulative wh0re going behind her boyfriend back and talking to you. If she did this to him, she will do this to you (remember why you two broke in the first place, in most cases the past always repeats itself.)

I suspect she's using me to fill the void in her life for the time being.
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If your gut is telling you this, then it is probably true. You know her well enough to arrive to this conclusion.
 

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You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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chuchu

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Think of why you two broke up in the first place.

Bust your DJ moves on her, make her wants you but cant have you. Get a new gf while you're at it please!
 
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aftershock

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Bad idea - be a man and walk away.

She sounds as if she deserves to be treated like crap!
 
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Luscious

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Listen to these guys - they are spot on.

Either hit it and quit it or move on. There is absolutely no way you can go long-term on this, you can only snag a nice little hit and run.
 
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It could be that or it could be she may want to get back with you.

Go for the bang and be cool about the whole situation while not dedicating 100% to her.
 
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