"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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I've been dry orgasming lately

SlpStrm

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Been to the doc, bloodwork was fine, and there's no reason it should affect my health and further testing can be done whenever. I get a lot of sexual attention but it's holding back my game, cause I'm worried about them losing interest cause of it. What kind of attitude shoud I have about it and how should I play it off?
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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salmon

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Fake it? :)

Seriously though, it's not entirely unheard of. A girl I'm seeing found a video called the Maxwell Multiple Climax method, which teaches men how to have multiple orgasms. It's a hilarious movie, but one of the points he made is that it's possible to disassociate orgasm and ejaculation, so that you can have multiple orgasms before you decide to blow. And in googling it, it seems you can avoid ejaculation by prostate stimulation too (if that's your kettle of fish).

If I were you, I'd see if you can multiple :) I'm sure the girls will be more than impressed with a guy who can choose when he shoots, rather than within the first few seconds...
 

katatonia

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Sounds like a good problem to have lol.

Unless you want kids of course. :down:
 

Cinamon

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Surely thats a good thing. I'd love a guy who could orgasm without ***, but then on the other hand, i also want kids in the future, so it wouldnt work for serious relationship.
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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