"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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I've been dry orgasming lately

SlpStrm

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Been to the doc, bloodwork was fine, and there's no reason it should affect my health and further testing can be done whenever. I get a lot of sexual attention but it's holding back my game, cause I'm worried about them losing interest cause of it. What kind of attitude shoud I have about it and how should I play it off?
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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salmon

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Fake it? :)

Seriously though, it's not entirely unheard of. A girl I'm seeing found a video called the Maxwell Multiple Climax method, which teaches men how to have multiple orgasms. It's a hilarious movie, but one of the points he made is that it's possible to disassociate orgasm and ejaculation, so that you can have multiple orgasms before you decide to blow. And in googling it, it seems you can avoid ejaculation by prostate stimulation too (if that's your kettle of fish).

If I were you, I'd see if you can multiple :) I'm sure the girls will be more than impressed with a guy who can choose when he shoots, rather than within the first few seconds...
 

katatonia

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Sounds like a good problem to have lol.

Unless you want kids of course. :down:
 

Cinamon

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Surely thats a good thing. I'd love a guy who could orgasm without ***, but then on the other hand, i also want kids in the future, so it wouldnt work for serious relationship.
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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