Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single

She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.

You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.

The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.

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I've been dry orgasming lately

SlpStrm

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Been to the doc, bloodwork was fine, and there's no reason it should affect my health and further testing can be done whenever. I get a lot of sexual attention but it's holding back my game, cause I'm worried about them losing interest cause of it. What kind of attitude shoud I have about it and how should I play it off?
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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salmon

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Fake it? :)

Seriously though, it's not entirely unheard of. A girl I'm seeing found a video called the Maxwell Multiple Climax method, which teaches men how to have multiple orgasms. It's a hilarious movie, but one of the points he made is that it's possible to disassociate orgasm and ejaculation, so that you can have multiple orgasms before you decide to blow. And in googling it, it seems you can avoid ejaculation by prostate stimulation too (if that's your kettle of fish).

If I were you, I'd see if you can multiple :) I'm sure the girls will be more than impressed with a guy who can choose when he shoots, rather than within the first few seconds...
 

katatonia

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Sounds like a good problem to have lol.

Unless you want kids of course. :down:
 

Cinamon

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Surely thats a good thing. I'd love a guy who could orgasm without ***, but then on the other hand, i also want kids in the future, so it wouldnt work for serious relationship.
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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