It's too much effort

5ke1chat

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hi

let me present myself. before my 20yo, I was socially awkward, but I don't feel like that anymore.
Now I'm 25yo, I live in hostels and can meet many people easily. I have no problem to make conversations with girls in normal situations (ie, not daygame).
I'm happy about my life, I have zero willpower problem when I get into a project (workout, money, spirituality...)
A few people told me I'm weird, but whatever. A few girls told me I'm cute, so I guess I'm not ugly.

I never had a girlfriend. My current goal with women is to satisfy my penis. if I can get some love and affection, why not.

The problem is, unless I have a crush on a girl (and that's rare) , then I really don't feel like putting any effort on her, I just want to have sex, I don't want to talk for days or hang out with them.

I've read that if you don't enjoy the process, then game is a big waste of time. Do you think it's true?


Sometime I think I'd better focus on becoming rich and open a porn company (no kidding here) or just travel the world and **** tons of prostitutes. But at some point my need for love and affection would wake up, and I'd be left unskilled about getting girlfriends.

What's your opinion?
 

mrgoodstuff

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#2
hi

let me present myself. before my 20yo, I was socially awkward, but I don't feel like that anymore.
Now I'm 25yo, I live in hostels and can meet many people easily. I have no problem to make conversations with girls in normal situations (ie, not daygame).
I'm happy about my life, I have zero willpower problem when I get into a project (workout, money, spirituality...)
A few people told me I'm weird, but whatever. A few girls told me I'm cute, so I guess I'm not ugly.

I never had a girlfriend. My current goal with women is to satisfy my penis. if I can get some love and affection, why not.

The problem is, unless I have a crush on a girl (and that's rare) , then I really don't feel like putting any effort on her, I just want to have sex, I don't want to talk for days or hang out with them.

I've read that if you don't enjoy the process, then game is a big waste of time. Do you think it's true?


Sometime I think I'd better focus on becoming rich and open a porn company (no kidding here) or just travel the world and **** tons of prostitutes. But at some point my need for love and affection would wake up, and I'd be left unskilled about getting girlfriends.

What's your opinion?
I think getting unskilled in getting gfs points to a loss of the ability to establish rapport and connection. Its better not to lose that.
 

Dr.Rocanlover

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#3
hi

let me present myself. before my 20yo, I was socially awkward, but I don't feel like that anymore.
Now I'm 25yo, I live in hostels and can meet many people easily. I have no problem to make conversations with girls in normal situations (ie, not daygame).
I'm happy about my life, I have zero willpower problem when I get into a project (workout, money, spirituality...)
A few people told me I'm weird, but whatever. A few girls told me I'm cute, so I guess I'm not ugly.

I never had a girlfriend. My current goal with women is to satisfy my penis. if I can get some love and affection, why not.

The problem is, unless I have a crush on a girl (and that's rare) , then I really don't feel like putting any effort on her, I just want to have sex, I don't want to talk for days or hang out with them.

I've read that if you don't enjoy the process, then game is a big waste of time. Do you think it's true?


Sometime I think I'd better focus on becoming rich and open a porn company (no kidding here) or just travel the world and **** tons of prostitutes. But at some point my need for love and affection would wake up, and I'd be left unskilled about getting girlfriends.

What's your opinion?
Opening a porn company and having a girlfriend are not mutually exclusive. You can have both.
I say focus on money and porn company right now, once you are succesfull it´ll be easier to get a gf, and your succes will give you access to hotter women
 

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markfromeurope

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my sexual drive is normal or above average I think. I masturbate once a day
Yeah, well, I kind of knew something was off. It's way too much and it kills your drive to go after woman actually and force yourself to face possible rejection.

Go for once a week habit - around day 5 or so you will feel so energised you will start to pick up women automatically. Then, eventually, you will sleep with some. Try to be the most energised when it's the most important (party, some nice trip with girls etc.)

I can guarantee you it will work.

0 USD for golden advice. Go, spread your seed.
 

5ke1chat

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markfromeurope thanks you for trying to help but I think you are not the one I need.

I once stopped masturbation for 2 weeks. I got back into it because its useless to stop. I don't have any faith in little clickbait tricks, "eat 3 bananas a day and it will do incredible things to your body", "drink 1 litter of water just after waking up to get bigger muscles", "stop masturbating and....."

please stop answering my thread

the ability to establish rapport and connection.
Thanks Mrgoodstuff, indeed, one of the last crush I had was because I felt intellectually connected to this girl, and enjoyed a lot her chill and calm vibe. She wasn't even very hot (6/10).
I feel different than most of the people and somehow disconnected from them.
 

markfromeurope

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markfromeurope thanks you for trying to help but I think you are not the one I need.

I once stopped masturbation for 2 weeks. I got back into it because its useless to stop. I don't have any faith in little clickbait tricks, "eat 3 bananas a day and it will do incredible things to your body", "drink 1 litter of water just after waking up to get bigger muscles", "stop masturbating and....."

please stop answering my thread
Ok mate, good luck with searching spiritual issues in yourself while wanking once per day.
 
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What's your opinion?
You enjoy your LIFE and you don't enjoy game. You are 25 presumably handsome make good money have willpower. You don't want to spend your time and money courting them. You just want to fvuck them.

All admirable in my opinion. You're an unabashed man's man. Make lots of money and you'll be swimming in women.
 
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