Okay...I'm kinda new to this stuff, so I don't really understand all of the acronyms and such (I know DJ and AFC 
) A friend directed me to this website for help.
I've had my eye on this girl for a while. Now, in the past I never considered myself a positive person when it came to asking a girl out. Whenever I liked a girl in the past years, I've always screwed them up by telling the girl how I feel (and after reading the posts, and learning from my mistakes, that WASN'T a good idea...)
So now, for the past few weeks, I've been becoming more and more nervous about the situation. It's almost the end of Grade 10 for us, and then summer. If I don't ask now, I'll have to wait three months. And I don't think I can do that.
For the first time in my life I feel extremely confident about a situation like this. No longer am I daydreaming about being with a girl; I feel as if I'm taking action. It's an odd feeling, but it's exhilerating.
I achieve excellent grades but at the same time manage to be the class clown, and for some reason, because of this, I am able to talk and joke with girls all the time, especially this one.
But how do I ask her? I want to approach her confidentally, but it's weird because she's never seen my "serious" side, if you can call it that. Also, she spends a lot of time with her friends, so the only time I can approach her is in the morning sometime when she goes to her locker. We're not "friends", which is good because I'd hate to be stuck in the friends zone. But how should I ask? And when? I also work this weekend (and she does too, she's told me about her job and such) so should I ask her out friday? Is that safe? Or should I ask her out on the upcoming Monday of the last week of school, and ask if she wants to do something THAT weekend?
Thanks in advance
) A friend directed me to this website for help.I've had my eye on this girl for a while. Now, in the past I never considered myself a positive person when it came to asking a girl out. Whenever I liked a girl in the past years, I've always screwed them up by telling the girl how I feel (and after reading the posts, and learning from my mistakes, that WASN'T a good idea...)
So now, for the past few weeks, I've been becoming more and more nervous about the situation. It's almost the end of Grade 10 for us, and then summer. If I don't ask now, I'll have to wait three months. And I don't think I can do that.
For the first time in my life I feel extremely confident about a situation like this. No longer am I daydreaming about being with a girl; I feel as if I'm taking action. It's an odd feeling, but it's exhilerating.
I achieve excellent grades but at the same time manage to be the class clown, and for some reason, because of this, I am able to talk and joke with girls all the time, especially this one.
But how do I ask her? I want to approach her confidentally, but it's weird because she's never seen my "serious" side, if you can call it that. Also, she spends a lot of time with her friends, so the only time I can approach her is in the morning sometime when she goes to her locker. We're not "friends", which is good because I'd hate to be stuck in the friends zone. But how should I ask? And when? I also work this weekend (and she does too, she's told me about her job and such) so should I ask her out friday? Is that safe? Or should I ask her out on the upcoming Monday of the last week of school, and ask if she wants to do something THAT weekend?
Thanks in advance