"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Its so sickening that the typical American Woman is 172lbs @ 5ft4 with a 38.7-inch waist.

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Don't wanna be part of this Clown World anymore, what a joke.

Your grandad - and likely father as well - got prime 16-23 slim average Becky cunny that weighed 110 > 128lbs, and even into old age 50+ she wouldn't top out over 150/155lbs much. He was competing for 2, 3 or 4 local men for her during the courting process, not 500+ guys a month on dating apps, social media etc, and not 5000+ men a year.

Now men have to be Superman or MOG 85%-90% of other men to date a 120lbs basic slim average Becky; a 5/10 (6 in makeup/makeup-inflation). And you're told its your fault for not Superman maxxing to become a rich, wealthy high status hunk. **** like "adopt or die" is the advice. Its a race to the ****ING BOTTOM.

This is what a 172lbs @ 5ft4 female adult looks like... and I've seen worse than this at this particular height/weight...


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Average american burgerland mut above is a 3/10, not anywhere near a 5. I can't bed that, no way.

Even this woman falls 20lbs below the average Americo'mut (pic below). Her body still bad at 150lbs (obese), and not great at 120lbs (slow friday night). :pepoClown:


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These are not high standards by any means for a slim/fit average man to want better than the above - certainly slimmer/fitter/tighter.

Even 13yo girls in Burgerland have 30.3 inch waists now. Ideal is 24-28 for a GROWN ASS WOMAN let alone a young jailbait teenybopper in her 2nd year of High School, jfl. See here if you don't believe me: https://www.healthline.com/health/average-waist-size-for-women

And here's the ideal waist size chart for GROWN ASS WOMEN (not children):


I had a 29 waist at 20-21, with a 5ft9.5 height. JFL... the average 13yo Burgerland schoolgirl has a bigger waist than what i had at 21. :blackpill:

What can i say, I feel bad for us all, were ****ed. You Poor Bastards. Only thing to do is stamp those Passports and hope/prey.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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It's pretty sad. When I was growing up in the 70s, sure there were a few heavier gals (and guys), but we didn't have the obesity epidemic we have now. I really think it's something they're putting in our food. I've heard talk about corn syrup and GMOs. It seems like you have to make a conscious effort to keep your weight down now, where as before it was effortless. And I mean that beyond simply talking about myself, or age differences. It's a societal change.
 
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It's pretty sad. When I was growing up in the 70s, sure there were a few heavier gals (and guys), but we didn't have the obesity epidemic we have now. I really think it's something they're putting in our food. I've heard talk about corn syrup and GMOs. It seems like you have to make a conscious effort to keep your weight down now, where as before it was effortless. And I mean that beyond simply talking about myself, or age differences. It's a societal change.
If it is a PSYOP / ****ing with our food chain to make us fat/ugly. (average Burgerland prime adult is a 3/10) (therefore reduce partnerships/sex/birth rates) then its a Master Plan that they won, kudos to them. It also works in that the Elites and tall handsome richest of men get all the slim hot girls and slim/healthy weight average girls. Its a form of calculated Eugenics, well hidden and masked of course.
 

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Just work on yourself 24/7 OP! If we all do this as men surely that will encourage these fatties to shape up. Certainly they won't up their standards even higher as they get fatter and lazier themselves.

LOL

Real talk though maybe you can take out a 300K loan for extensive plastic surgery as the dating market cesspool further toxifies. There is hope.
 
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Just work on yourself 24/7 OP! If we all do this as men surely that will encourage these fatties to shape up. Certainly they won't up their standards even higher as they get fatter and lazier themselves.

LOL
Its simps calling 5ft3, 172lbs piggies they are "Mids" or "look fine" or "its a normal weight", Nope, you're carrying 40 to 45lbs of excess fat.

Its Simps calling 120lbs, slim plain Becky a goddess, model.

Hell, it took me as a man in his prime 20 years ago to build myself up from 5ft10, 152lbs to 172lbs with 15% bodyfat. It took nearly a year. I ate a ton, too.
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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Just work on yourself 24/7 OP! If we all do this as men surely that will encourage these fatties to shape up. Certainly they won't up their standards even higher as they get fatter and lazier themselves.

LOL

Real talk though maybe you can take out a 300K loan for extensive plastic surgery as the dating market cesspool further toxifies. There is hope.
The Normal/average looking women (healthy weight) just end up like this.... in the winter of their fertility years (age 38), saggy botox face, spending thousands of their Boss Babe incomes on MatchMaking services, but still demanding a top 1% >5% Hot Alpha Male man.

 

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My ex wife is 5' 4". She was in beauty pageants shortly before I met her and had gained maybe 10-15 pounds from her swimsuit competition body when I met her at college. I didn't care, I married her anyway. Then she decided she was depressed and started taking Lexapro. She gained, I want to say a hundred but it was probably more like 80 pounds in less than two years. She was like a balloon.
 

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The Normal/average looking women (healthy weight) just end up like this.... in the winter of their fertility years (age 38), saggy botox face, spending thousands of their Boss Babe incomes on MatchMaking services, but still demanding a top 1% >5% Hot Alpha Male man.

That chick is "unmirrorable". As in, the glass would break in half a second with those crazy eyes intruding into it.

OP, my post was sarcastic. There is no solution short of men collectively banding together to shun them as a group. Odds are, the sun will blast the life off the Earth before that happens though. Which is not sarcastic because that's what's going to happen within our lifetimes, and why the Elites are so busy building bunkers in New Zealand and god knows where else.
 

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If it is a PSYOP / ****ing with our food chain to make us fat/ugly. (average Burgerland prime adult is a 3/10) (therefore reduce partnerships/sex/birth rates) then its a Master Plan that they won, kudos to them. It also works in that the Elites and tall handsome richest of men get all the slim hot girls and slim/healthy weight average girls. Its a form of calculated Eugenics, well hidden and masked of course.
It's really nothing like that.

It's just huge prosperity and excess, that many people lack the IQ to cope with. So they over indulge.

Obesity is a sign of low IQ. So are tattoos. You should be glad that many women now make their low IQ and low standards abundantly obvious.

The Epiphany Phase (grabbing betabux at the last minute before the Wall hits) is no longer possible since they've covered themselves with tattoo scrawlings identifying their ***** past. Stretch marks from over indulging.

Just make a great life fur yourself. Gym, great foods, friends & family, chillmaxxing in nature. If a bird comes along then great.
 

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It's really nothing like that.

It's just huge prosperity and excess, that many people lack the IQ to cope with. So they over indulge.

Obesity is a sign of low IQ. So are tattoos. You should be glad that many women now make their low IQ and low standards abundantly obvious.

The Epiphany Phase (grabbing betabux at the last minute before the Wall hits) is no longer possible since they've covered themselves with tattoo scrawlings identifying their ***** past. Stretch marks from over indulging.

Just make a great life fur yourself. Gym, great foods, friends & family, chillmaxxing in nature. If a bird comes along then great.
There's a thing called the Epstein List out there and this high-IQ scholar attributes the rot to "prosperity excess". Priceless.
 
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"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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@Identikit_Radiohead "Your grandad - and likely father as well - got prime 16-23 slim average Becky cunny that weighed 110 > 128lbs, and even into old age 50+ she wouldn't top out over 150/155lbs much"

Rampant malnourishment has it's perks, so long as one doesn't mind the scurvy and rickets which accompany them
 

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The Epstein List made people fat?

What?
I'll do both of you one better. False binaries are the real psy-op. Yes, there's an Epstein list. And, yes, low IQ people suffer from prosperity rot. And, yes, prescription psychiatric meds are making things worse. And, yes...
 
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