"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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It's so fukking hard to find a quality wingman

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I was making friends with this cool dude at my gym - tall, good looking, super lean, very likable. I figured he would be a perfect wingman for the bars/night scene... I find out he's super introverted and doesn't like to go out.

I made friends with another cool ass dude from my gym - we went out couple times. Then I found out he's got big time emotional/depression problems. Didn't see him for months while he was dealing with mental health issues

I have 1 single friend but he hates to be around anybody new and he's not good looking enough to be a real wingman

I have another friend who is decent at approaching but he's not good looking/polished enough in his behavior to be a good wingman for the kind of high class females I like


How the fukk do I find a proper chad to help me wingman?
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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bigdave17 said:
I have 1 single friend but he hates to be around anybody new and he's not good looking enough to be a real wingman

I have another friend who is decent at approaching but he's not good looking/polished enough in his behavior to be a good wingman for the kind of high class females I like
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Wow, you're not very complimentary of your friends, are you?
Seriously, if you were a friend of mine, I'd tell you to fvck off.
You can barely force yourself to approach, and you're judging other guys on their ability? WTF?
 
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