"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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It's so fukking hard to find a quality wingman

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I was making friends with this cool dude at my gym - tall, good looking, super lean, very likable. I figured he would be a perfect wingman for the bars/night scene... I find out he's super introverted and doesn't like to go out.

I made friends with another cool ass dude from my gym - we went out couple times. Then I found out he's got big time emotional/depression problems. Didn't see him for months while he was dealing with mental health issues

I have 1 single friend but he hates to be around anybody new and he's not good looking enough to be a real wingman

I have another friend who is decent at approaching but he's not good looking/polished enough in his behavior to be a good wingman for the kind of high class females I like


How the fukk do I find a proper chad to help me wingman?
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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bigdave17 said:
I have 1 single friend but he hates to be around anybody new and he's not good looking enough to be a real wingman

I have another friend who is decent at approaching but he's not good looking/polished enough in his behavior to be a good wingman for the kind of high class females I like
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Wow, you're not very complimentary of your friends, are you?
Seriously, if you were a friend of mine, I'd tell you to fvck off.
You can barely force yourself to approach, and you're judging other guys on their ability? WTF?
 
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