"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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It's so easy...

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"Why won't this girl talk to me?" "How do I get her to go out with me?" "She looked at me and smiled...Is that good?"

Guys, seriously...It's not that hard.

I've been reading Anthony's "1...1000" thread. I read Lik's Field Report. I read other stuff by people stating their success. There was a common pattern...

They didn't overanalyze things.

It's so easy to get a girl. You don't have to have the perfect thing to say, you just need something worthwhile to say. You don't need a certain attitude, just one not of pure nearvousness. You don't need the right look, just one that doesn't scream "Spare change sir?"

Just sit down, relax, look at that girl you like, and smile. Not a "Goomer Pile while loading the gun" smile, but a "I feel good" smile. You don't need to sit there and wonder "should I look at her?" "Do I go talk to her?" Just do it. Do what feels right, not what you think 5 seconds later.

Come on guys...It's so easy.
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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Originally posted by TonyTheTigerOI
Great ****ing post. Amen. I love when people write **** about how sexy I am.
Erm...Ok. :p
 

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lekka!

Nice "inspiration" post:rolleyes: ;)


Laterz...
 

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Very nice.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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So true.
 

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Well I could also say how good this post is and simple but yet effective, or I could make a wise crack.

I choose the latter....

Not a "Goomer Pile while loading the gun" smile
How about a Barney 5 "Howdy" and a cheesy smile. :D
 
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