"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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It's so easy...

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"Why won't this girl talk to me?" "How do I get her to go out with me?" "She looked at me and smiled...Is that good?"

Guys, seriously...It's not that hard.

I've been reading Anthony's "1...1000" thread. I read Lik's Field Report. I read other stuff by people stating their success. There was a common pattern...

They didn't overanalyze things.

It's so easy to get a girl. You don't have to have the perfect thing to say, you just need something worthwhile to say. You don't need a certain attitude, just one not of pure nearvousness. You don't need the right look, just one that doesn't scream "Spare change sir?"

Just sit down, relax, look at that girl you like, and smile. Not a "Goomer Pile while loading the gun" smile, but a "I feel good" smile. You don't need to sit there and wonder "should I look at her?" "Do I go talk to her?" Just do it. Do what feels right, not what you think 5 seconds later.

Come on guys...It's so easy.
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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Originally posted by TonyTheTigerOI
Great ****ing post. Amen. I love when people write **** about how sexy I am.
Erm...Ok. :p
 

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lekka!

Nice "inspiration" post:rolleyes: ;)


Laterz...
 

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Very nice.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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So true.
 

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Well I could also say how good this post is and simple but yet effective, or I could make a wise crack.

I choose the latter....

Not a "Goomer Pile while loading the gun" smile
How about a Barney 5 "Howdy" and a cheesy smile. :D
 
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