"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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It's Officially Peak Casual Sex Season

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According to OkCupid data, now is the time that people are most looking for a one-night stand to kick off their summer fling.

More students, vacationers, interns and other travelers join OkCupid during this time. Since these members are not necessarily tied to the place where they’re dating, maybe they are less likely to look for a serious commitment. - OkCupid Data Scientist, Dale Markowitz​

Source: http://lifehacker.com/its-officially-peak-casual-sex-season-1795896840

I think that's why some guys suddenly get dumped right before summer "blindly" wondering "wtf!?" The g/f may start putting a hard effort into getting bikini "ready", new hair style, or her behavior starts acting up like she's working later or is catching up with her bff, "Heather."

*edit* Nothing new here, just reaffirming what we know about summer dating trends :cool:
 
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"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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You don't need a life hack article to know about the summer fling phenomena.
 
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