"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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It's Officially Peak Casual Sex Season

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According to OkCupid data, now is the time that people are most looking for a one-night stand to kick off their summer fling.

More students, vacationers, interns and other travelers join OkCupid during this time. Since these members are not necessarily tied to the place where they’re dating, maybe they are less likely to look for a serious commitment. - OkCupid Data Scientist, Dale Markowitz​

Source: http://lifehacker.com/its-officially-peak-casual-sex-season-1795896840

I think that's why some guys suddenly get dumped right before summer "blindly" wondering "wtf!?" The g/f may start putting a hard effort into getting bikini "ready", new hair style, or her behavior starts acting up like she's working later or is catching up with her bff, "Heather."

*edit* Nothing new here, just reaffirming what we know about summer dating trends :cool:
 
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"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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You don't need a life hack article to know about the summer fling phenomena.
 
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