"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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its officially i can't close the deal

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Hey Guys,
First of all I have a confession, with this girl/about girls. The confession is I cannot close the deal and ask her to go out with me, I am trying, but i keep freezing up, getting bad nerves. I can have a normal conversation with her,(as with other girls in my class), i smile, nod , keep the eye contact and I have gotten her attention, but what can i do to close the deal(ask her out, without pysching myself out.) I am doing everything wrong, granted that now she acknowledges I exist and have her attention. Help would appreciated from all the Djs-but especially the senior or master ones. Thanks alot. Bottoms Up and Taker Easy. If shes easy taker twice! Cheers!
 

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Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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Stop thinking about it. Or as Pook said, think "Oooh la la!" while you gaze at her. Then and only then will you ask her out.
 
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Whatcha scared of bro? You got her alone, staring into your eyes, hanging on your every word.... you really think she's gonna say no? I never understood this way of thinking.

Maybe the alternative will spook you into action: If you never close the deal for a date, you'll never be able to close the deal for sex, or engagement, or marriage, or kids, or grandkids, or any of those other great things in life. Are you gonna sit there and let the fear of a silly little rejection keep all those wonderful things out of your life? No? I hope not.
 
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